There may be a man on here, no telling what his username is, if he's rejoined. Some tells: Receding brownish hair, grey eyes, about six feet tall, forty seven now in 2023, usually works in a low level manager position in business or government offices, has six siblings, both parents dead, loves Jim Morrison. Will come across as exceedingly intelligent.
This man is my ex husband and is extremely dangerous. He is not a Dom. He struggles with mental illness. He will systematically break you down, make you hate yourself, and feel utterly trapped.
I do not hate this man, but wish desperately for his well being. However, I also don't want what happened to me to happen to anyone else.
Also, if anyone new to the community would like a female mentor, fell free to ask me questions or start a correspondence. I have a lot of useful experience as a sub, as well as a Domme. I'm now very happily married so it would be platonic.
God luck out there, and be careful. He's not the only one out there. Doesn't matter if you're smart. Doesn't matter if you're strong.