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Looking to find dom to help teach us - 3/23/2023 3:42:51 PM

Brownbrown

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Hi, we are a couple my fiance is sub and I try to be dom but for whatever reason I kinda suck at it,
We were thinking that maybe if a third party dom was helping I wouldn’t feel guilty doing some things
And she would be able to experience it in a better way
Was thinking we could have a dom direct on cam show me things to do and stuff, see what happens
I think we would have to wear masks or something to keep it safe
If any doms that have a lot of experience doing would like to try with us please let me know
Thanks!

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RE: Looking to find dom to help teach us - 3/23/2023 3:48:16 PM

domexpert

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Hi, Dom here online that help couples find their wants, kinks, things new to try and might like
New on this site but had a few couples on my experiences
Hope you would be interested let me knnow

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RE: Looking to find dom to help teach us - 3/26/2023 1:14:17 AM

Maturealphadom

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Good Morning please see My response below and I hope we can get further acquainted. My responses are in brackets:

Hi, we are a couple my fiance is sub and I try to be dom but for whatever reason I kinda suck at it, (that is okay I can definitely take the time to get acquainted and train you by instructing you and/or Dominating her while you learn from Me by Me giving instructions on how to Dominate her
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We were thinking that maybe if a third party dom was helping I wouldn’t feel guilty doing some things (that is totally understandable as you can both find out how she enjoys submitting by another Dom and not feel bad about what she enjoys when being Dominated)

And she would be able to experience it in a better way (yes as it wouldn't feel forced if a Dom like Me gave the instructions and this would feel less stressed for both of you)

Was thinking we could have a dom direct on cam show me things to do and stuff, see what happens (yes I am comfortable with this approach giving you or her instructions via cam and then you can see what she likes/dislikes and learn with anonymity)

I think we would have to wear masks or something to keep it safe (that is fine by Me)

If any doms that have a lot of experience doing would like to try with us please let me know (I am experienced with couples training them and giving guidance as and when needed)

Thanks! (My pleasure feel free to drope Me a message if interested)

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RE: Looking to find dom to help teach us - 7/8/2023 8:16:43 PM

OsideGirl

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Ontario has a vibrant kink community. I would suggest getting to know some people there and I'm sure you could find someone willing to help you and show the ropes, so to speak.

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RE: Looking to find dom to help teach us - 7/10/2023 11:03:48 PM

JVoV

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Open & honest communication is necessary, and both sub & Dom need to do their own research into all things kink, in order to even know what's possible, much less what turns them on. You can easily start with the interests section in your CS profile; just discuss the options.

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