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Dompadrone -> Faking: A Warning to Those Venturing into the Casual Scene" (3/25/2023 11:29:28 AM)

Faking: A Warning to Those Venturing into the Casual Scene"
It has come to my attention that there seems to be an increasing numbers of women, or those pretending to be women, ON FETLIFE might yes might not who are involved in the swinging or casual scene or moreover gold diggers. While I understand that we live in a free world and people are free to make their own choices, I cannot help but feel annoyed with the growing number of individuals who seem to be involved in this lifestyle simply for free fuck and the sake of it.

As someone who is not personally interested in swinging or casual activities, I find it particularly boring to be constantly bombarded by self-proclaimed experts at events and gatherings. Furthermore, I have noticed a concerning number of fake profiles on sites like FetLife, which raises questions about the safety and authenticity of these environments.

I would love if the organizers of munches and other events to take a more proactive approach to monitoring attendees and addressing any instances of defamation or inappropriate behavior. Similarly, I urge the administrators of FetLife and other sites to take a closer look at the profiles they host and consider implementing stricter measures to weed out fake accounts and ensure the safety of their users.

Please note that this message is intended as a warning to anyone who may be considering getting involved in this scene, and I strongly advise caution and discretion when engaging with others in these environments.




thursdays -> RE: Faking: A Warning to Those Venturing into the Casual Scene" (3/31/2023 2:52:56 AM)

Okely dokely... Let me offer up a couple of pointers ..

First of all, yes ... There are plenty of fake accounts, and plenty of people who think that joining a kinky site is a fast route to easy sex.

But, my experience of sites like this is that, in general, the genuine profiles are not hard to spot... And the delete and block process means that it's relatively easy to ignore the fakes.

Cm has a "hide profile" feature too, which is handy.

To your point about verification and checking... Remember these are free sites... And perhaps dealing with profiles that are fake (or simply profiles that aren't a perfect match for us) isn't that onerous?

I can say that over the years I've met a slew of fabulous, Interesting, and lovely people in places like this so I would counsel patience.




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