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optrists -> RE: so profiles in review are being thrown away in the garbage now? (10/30/2025 3:31:11 PM)

Bluefyre thanks for the advice. Unfortunately it hasn't work in my case but I hope others have more success




OsideGirl -> RE: so profiles in review are being thrown away in the garbage now? (11/2/2025 11:21:14 AM)


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ORIGINAL: BlueFyre

Right now my suggestion remains that if your profile seems to have fallen into The Void, and you've waited at least a week, check it for possible violations, make a tiny change (ex. punctuation) and resubmit it for approval.



When I was a mod, it was usually this. Remember, just because you think it shouldn't be a violation, doesn't mean it is not.




Charles6682 -> RE: so profiles in review are being thrown away in the garbage now? (11/3/2025 8:45:44 AM)

I personally have not had any issues with collarspace. Of course, I've just kept the same profile now since 2007. I did go through a few different profiles before then. I know collarspace isn't as big as it once was but I have at least seen some improvements over the past year. Nice to see collarchat is active again. Of course the politics and religion section is always those back and forth debates. That's good. That's healthy. But all that aside, it would be nice to see this site claim its forever glory if possible.




wickedsdesires -> RE: so profiles in review are being thrown away in the garbage now? (11/7/2025 7:48:35 PM)

Us true ancients are here. I predate you a lot

I have at least seen some improvements over the past year.

Such as?







blnymph -> RE: so profiles in review are being thrown away in the garbage now? (11/30/2025 4:49:48 AM)

Maybe switching collarchat off and on and off and on again does count as an improvement for some?




wickedsdesires -> RE: so profiles in review are being thrown away in the garbage now? (11/30/2025 8:46:14 AM)

optrists Did you try mailing Bluefyre?

I am not sure if people can mail others if there profile is pending and waiting review but give that a try.

I know if they are on pending they can access the groups but as you heard Blue say they are almost never here.

Can they access the Chatroom? Not sure on that one myself. Every so often there is a mod on there.

From memory I am aware over the years reading this one here and on other sites some profiles that are on pending shouldn't be. The Void may very well be real in the case of those profiles - a glitch somewhere that no one can see.

If you and others beleive you have fallen into The Void What you can do is create another Profile but use a different username, email and password - read through another mods and ex mods replies.

If in the past you annoyed a previous mod or their friends they may have banned for a good reason, or a nonsense reason, but as blue said since a certain date there is no ban reason next to the profile so the new mods wont be able to see why.

I suspect the mods are simply unaware this has happened to many people and I am beginning to suspect this may happen to only Legacy profiles.

But, if you were here before the site went down for a year or more you should still be here. The problem might (might!) be down to some programming glitch.

Over the years on various sites; here, FL, Disc, I have read this happening to well over 20 users.

Because I had read so many I decided to see what happens.
I switched my pictures - my profile went to pending - that was approved in less than 3 days.
I added a fullstop or took one from my profile - went to pending but was approved within a week.

I couldn't tell you when the approval process came into force.
A few years ago when collar gave the option of verifying yourself via picture. I did that and it went very smoothly but I don't think many members did that.

Over the last few years the number of scammer mails I have received have dwindled to zero, not that I got too many before that. I havent seen a bot, looking for money run amok, on here last few years.

There were a lot of dodgy profiles in the past, all sites have those, hence there system is more robust now - in theory.

CM wont have many mods. I think they are all voluntary and do it in their unpaid free time?

Laws have changed over the last few years. Depending which country we are all from they are all different.

CM has to follow those rules or potentially pay up fines if they don't act on these matters, which is why they now have a robust approval system.

Any questions read above or ask blnymph & OsideGirl their advice in these matters is solid bt realistically I think we have all said what we know when profiles seemingly get lost in The Void. Can todays mods see into THe VOid? That I dont know, more than possible but they need to know who to look for is my best guess.








riccislut -> RE: so profiles in review are being thrown away in the garbage now? (12/8/2025 5:02:12 PM)

Well I first joined Collarme probably 25 years ago.
Then after that broke down went to collarspace.
About 8 years ago I could no longer sign in or make a new profile.
Every so often I would come back to see if it was fixed.
Imagine my surprise when I could sign into my old account!
But only using chrome. However I was able to make a new account on google.
I hope it stays running and makes a comeback.
I sure have missed it.




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