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SexyRed -> RE: Different views of subspace and subdrop (8/2/2006 2:47:57 PM)
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ORIGINAL: mistoferin
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ORIGINAL: SexyRed
Subdrop for me makes me feel sad and depressed, since the person I play with is someone I experience great intensity with, but cannot really be with on a daily basis. So, subdrop, is akin to just being sad about not being able to be with someone you really care about, especially since such intense feelings generated during a scene should be accompanied by caring emotions.
I refer to this differently as this is not how I experience subdrop. This is something that I would refer to for myself more along the lines of seperation anxiety or loneliness. So then do you, or have you ever experienced subdrop in the physical sense that I described? And if so....do you see them as different?
I agree that what I described as sub drop falls more into the category of separation anxiety or loneliness. However, when compared to vanilla situations of having great sex or a scene, it is much more magnified after a scene since for me, the connection and feelings and the physical sensations are so much more intense, that there is that much more to "drop" from, if that makes sense.
To answer your physical question, no, I don't feel like I am getting the flu or anything, but many times I have a headache the next day, general aches and pains and most of all, a very fuzzy, dopey feeling, like my brain is tired. It is the opposite of sub space, where all my feelings are fired up and intensified, the sub drop is when all feelings are mushy.
I hope I make sense, I just got in from running around Manhattan and you do not want to be there during this heat.
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