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ORIGINAL: JustaDom

Refinement isn't just knowing what fork to use, it is also a mindset.  The submissives I meet that stand out from the crowd have class, style, and wit.  They are gracious hosts and pleasant guests.  Simply put, they help their dominant look good.  I'd gladly have someone trained, either by someone in the community or a vanilla professional, to make me look better.  This kind of training pays for itself.

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That, and it is more fun to degrade and humiliate the prim and proper.

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ORIGINAL: spankmepink11

I have noticed however ,that many Dominant males are excited by the idea of forced public wanton behaviour in their sub/slave or provatively dressing them to the point of being slightly innapropriate.  Some have said they do so for the humiliation aspect....and some have stated that they simply enjoy "showing off their property. I've even gotten the impression that some do so  simply to measure the depths of the sub/slaves obedience.