BenignPlague
Posts: 52
Joined: 5/10/2005 Status: offline
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Master Fire Maam Thank you for the clarity about the photos. In my mind, they were photos of me and friends, male or female doesn't matter, but I see how they can be interpreted as confusing. I don't often take photos of just myself: I'm either with people I want to remember, or in a place I want to remember... As far as my age being the primary factor working against me, I can understand the perception that I would be a flight risk. However, just as a Mistress wouldn't want to invest time into a sub or slave not planning on staying around for a while, I wouldn't want to spend my time in like manner with a dominant. The idea that I would be a flight risk, while perhaps based on my economic and academic instability, fails to take into account one major aspect of my character: that I have been searching for over a year for a dominant I can call my own, establishing my credibility within the community, and networking friendships and acquaintances all over the northeast. I am doing my own investment too. But often it seems that people I talk to expect me to bend over backwards for perfect strangers, even in the tone of initial meetings. Yes I will be early, yes I will dress nicely, it is even likely I will bring some form of flower, because personally, I like getting them, and know many people do too. To make demands though, sending nude photos, answering questions that would have taken moments as they are in my profile.... it seems like we (subs) are expected to be automatically undeserving of dominants... I can't even count how many profiles I've hidden addressing men as scum, maggots, what have you... a click and they are gone. Am I missing something?
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