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On vacation with Misress... - 8/3/2006 10:00:13 AM

zzzstinky

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Hello All,

I was wondering if anyone had some experience or thoughts about travelling with a slave. I was wondering how I might serve a Mistress during a vacation. What I mean is that we would go away to a resort usually the ones where the employees take care of you. Yet I still want to take care of her... I can imagine of course carrying bags, shopping and visiting the sites of her choice... But just wondering if anyone else had enjoyed some vacation time with a slave in tow... :)

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/3/2006 10:06:56 AM

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oh yes I love that

First, are you there to be WITH your Mistress as in you and she are vacationing together or are you going becuase SHE is vacatioing and you are there to serve her?

Although employees are there to make a vacation more comfortable they are not on 24/7 attendance. Does she need:

bath service
massage
clothes laid out/ironed/washed
a drink refill/room service called/errands run
her door opened
her pillow fluffed
her meals/drinks ordered
bags carried
itinerary kept
suggestions for sightseeing
arrangements made
car brought around and cooled off before she enters

There are many ways to serve in the course of a day. Be attaentive and aware of your surroundings. Try to anticipate her needs and make her vacation as enjoyable as possible. Be gallant and romantic and remember the woman behind the Dom.

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/3/2006 10:23:23 AM

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Thank you...

That is exactly what I was thinking... This is her vacation... I don't know if "slaves" get a vacation or not :)
But that's okay because I don't really want one, serving her is much more enjoyable to me...

With anyluck I can make this a luxurious time for her, also offering romance and fun. Yet still work myself into a lather waiting on her hand and foot...

Thanks... MsKat :)

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/3/2006 10:30:38 AM

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When Fox travels with me it has mostly been to BDSM events -- Tom has gone with me to academic events and on our own personal romantic getaways, Fox did go with us to a science fiction convention however.

The biggest challenge in any of these for a slave is to represent your owner well while not necessarily being showy about it. If you find yourself at an event or a location where you are bored out of your mind, I think it is better to ask for permission to go site-seeing or somewhere else for a while than to hang around -- being bored, no matter how hard you try, is probably going to show through.

The trick though is to also be around when needed. You can do this by asking ahead of the trip if you and she can sit down and come up with a plan. This probably works best when its a working vacation I know.

Otherwise I'd say ask for her advice and suggestions as you go and just be your usually attentive self with consideration of the setting.

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/3/2006 10:55:08 AM

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ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Hello All,

I was wondering if anyone had some experience or thoughts about travelling with a slave. I was wondering how I might serve a Mistress during a vacation. What I mean is that we would go away to a resort usually the ones where the employees take care of you. Yet I still want to take care of her... I can imagine of course carrying bags, shopping and visiting the sites of her choice... But just wondering if anyone else had enjoyed some vacation time with a slave in tow... :)

Thanks,
robby.

Say Roby....

I used to go down to Cabo every couple of months with my favorite girl. You're on vacation brother.... I say let the ''staff'' do all the work.... you and her need to hang by the pool with some lotion and those exotic drinks with the little umbrellas.... and just enjoy each other.

My take ; }

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/3/2006 11:08:28 AM

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Say Roby....

I used to go down to Cabo every couple of months with my favorite girl. You're on vacation brother.... I say let the ''staff'' do all the work.... you and her need to hang by the pool with some lotion and those exotic drinks with the little umbrellas.... and just enjoy each other.

My take ; }

That is what happened with Master and i this last vacation, although the slave in me wanted to serve, the Master in him wanted my companionship and to enjoy my person, and that is still a part of service, to provide pleasurable companionship. Of course there were always those little things in which i could not help to fuss over. We are all human first, and we all need to be nurtured in other areas of our psyche in order to remain healthy and at our best for those we serve.

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/3/2006 4:32:55 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky
I was wondering if anyone had some experience or thoughts about travelling with a slave. I was wondering how I might serve a Mistress during a vacation. What I mean is that we would go away to a resort usually the ones where the employees take care of you. Yet I still want to take care of her... I can imagine of course carrying bags, shopping and visiting the sites of her choice... But just wondering if anyone else had enjoyed some vacation time with a slave in tow... :)

I've vacationed while a slave was on a working vacation, teaching for his medical institution at a prestigious golf resort. First, he was sure to book a suite that had access poolside and had it's own hottub. He briefed the house staff on my towel/bedding expectations. He made sure that my favorite tea was ready for me in the morning, whether he did it or whether he had room service take care of it (time depending.) While he was busy with his lectures, he made sure that I had something to occupy my day, be it a sedan taking me shopping on South Beach, a golf lesson or a spa visit. He also made sure to have a spa basket in the hotel for bathing, giving me a massage, etc. And the one night that he was unable to join me for dinner, he made sure there was a car service to take me into South Beach to a top-rated sushi place where I could enjoy my solo night. He was amply rewarded by a trip we took to a private SM club (ironically, referred to me by the limo driver) and by our nightly play.

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/12/2006 9:22:42 AM

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i asked this question also for example if i go to a sm party in an other town, where i need a place to lay down,to sleep.and just the same on the party, as a slave or someone who will be in future i need no comfortable place. Perhaps only a place where i can sleep very deep,to be freshed for the next day or hours and water 3l a day and a little bit to eat. Thats what someone as me need realy to live and to do my dutys,what i have been get from someone Female,who are always higher than my live. Normaly it could be so cheap,that it doesd cost nothing for me or for a lady who owned myself.
On her holidays it the same, if the managment of a hotel for example would accept myself as her servant,as her human pet,or something else,how ever . i'm the same as someone bring her own little animal to her vaccances/holiday in the hotel. Would be my place for her door of her room,i have accept this place as my sleeping place.
But its not allowed so i have to sleep in a room like ever guest in hotels. this cost Money who throwes a Lady away.

Sorry my english is bad,i tried to explained what i think,since i can say yes for only a future as her slave under Her Female-Feets or Hands

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/13/2006 3:46:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Hello All,

I was wondering if anyone had some experience or thoughts about travelling with a slave. I was wondering how I might serve a Mistress during a vacation. What I mean is that we would go away to a resort usually the ones where the employees take care of you. Yet I still want to take care of her... I can imagine of course carrying bags, shopping and visiting the sites of her choice... But just wondering if anyone else had enjoyed some vacation time with a slave in tow... :)

Thanks,
robby.

Depending on what your Lady wants is what would happen I'd say. I've traveled with subs to many places. Your Owner should discuss with you before hand any changes that might have to be made while you are both traveling. such as: you got to get ice down the hall, you usually are naked; she might tell you to be sure to at least have a towel on in case a child goes by etc. A lot of higher priced places were once use to ppl bringing their servants with them in some degree.

If your owner wants you to take care of her in any fashion...she will tell you.

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/13/2006 3:50:30 PM

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[/quote]

Say Roby....

I used to go down to Cabo every couple of months with my favorite girl. You're on vacation brother.... I say let the ''staff'' do all the work.... you and her need to hang by the pool with some lotion and those exotic drinks with the little umbrellas.... and just enjoy each other.

My take ; }

- R

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wouldn't it depend on what the Mistress wanted? She might be on vacation, but there is still the D/s element involved. Having your personal attendant to make sure the sunscreen in on just right; you stay hydrated; the diner reservation gets made; so many tasks still to do. nails polished, feet massaged........hmmmmmm

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/13/2006 4:36:49 PM

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ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Hello All,

I was wondering if anyone had some experience or thoughts about travelling with a slave. I was wondering how I might serve a Mistress during a vacation. What I mean is that we would go away to a resort usually the ones where the employees take care of you. Yet I still want to take care of her... I can imagine of course carrying bags, shopping and visiting the sites of her choice... But just wondering if anyone else had enjoyed some vacation time with a slave in tow... :)

Thanks,
robby.

This may be very, very person specific, but when on vacation with someone who owns me at the time, I've discovered I'm most useful if I don't go out of my way to keep reminding her I'm there to serve her, especially if we're at a place where we're pampered. It takes some comfortability with your submission and give and take in the relationship, but eventually you discover that if she wants something, she will let you know. If part of your normal routine is to take care of specific things, and they're expected, then it really doesn't require much more thinking, other than just to do it.

I discovered the hard way that trying to jump forward and "serve" in casual situations can sometimes be in the way of comfortability for her. Once I finally came to the realization that the reason I serve in the first place is to achieve her happiness, the whole thing became a lot easier.

Like I said, this may be very person specific, but I've discovered that not bringing attention to the service, but just being there when needed and doing what you know makes her happy, is often everything that needs to be done. But your mileage may vary.

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RE: On vacation with Misress... - 8/14/2006 4:31:37 AM

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wouldn't it depend on what the Mistress wanted? She might be on vacation, but there is still the D/s element involved. Having your personal attendant to make sure the sunscreen in on just right; you stay hydrated; the diner reservation gets made; so many tasks still to do. nails polished, feet massaged........hmmmmmm

Not exactly the dynamic I would be involved in…… but in most cases I guess….If you say so

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