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Pregnancy and BDSM? - 12/14/2004 12:01:10 PM   
SweetlyMisguided


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Status: offline 		Ok... I'll admit it... I kinda sorta forgot to get the update on my birth control right before Master left for Iraq... and whadda know... Here I sit, six months after he left, six months pregnant! So in the days before he left... I inherited a special part of him...

Anyways... Play and pregnancy... Master will be back before the little bit arrives... so I am wondering what type of play is safe? Some say that flogging, whipping, and caning are all safe activities as long as you don't directly hit the stomach (DUH)... But I am also wondering what if anything else are considered to be safe activities...

For Christmas I got him scalples to do cuttings *yumm*... Is that safe?
What about bondage? To what degree is it safe to be bound?

I know breath play and needle play are out and even though I luff those two things, hey... the kiddo comes first...

So if anyone has experience with this, or advice, I would LOVE to hear it!

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RE: Pregnancy and BDSM? - 12/14/2004 12:05:58 PM   
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Status: offline 		I would say to find a lifestyle friendly doctor that can answer those questions. I will ask an OB/GYN friend of mine if you would like and get her opinion.

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RE: Pregnancy and BDSM? - 12/14/2004 12:11:20 PM   
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From a direct medical point of view I cannot respond as Angel is not medically trained. However, something I am aware of is the dangers of using certain oils, potions, lotions etc(if such are used, before, during and after scenes)... which can be a negative influence during pregnancy and breast feeding. Again, this is something that a professional aromatherapist can advise You on.

Just a little info and blessings in Your journey!

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RE: Pregnancy and BDSM? - 12/14/2004 12:19:31 PM   
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This thread might help:

discipline during pregnancy

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RE: Pregnancy and BDSM? - 12/31/2004 6:16:33 AM   
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Status: offline 		My insight...keep play times short duration. You will tire more easily. If at any time you get cramps or contractions back pain headachs stop play and rest on your left side. Never lay flat on your back. The baby will press on a very large vein and stop oxygen to the baby. bondage in a chair or standing would prob be better.spanking the bottom, feet,hands, shoulders, would prob be ok If you plan to breastfeed stay away from them they are producing milk and are very sensitive .But opens up the window of pinching, and rolling the nipples to toughen them up and get them use to popping up some women do this that is not into bdsm so the baby will latch on better... exp if you have flat nipples or inverted. If your not planning on breast feeding I would leave them alone to not stimulate milk production.Yes when the baby comes it will happen naturaly but if you stimulate before birth it can actually make your body think the baby has came and you start to lactate not a problem unless you dont want to.From already having 2 children I just recommend putting your feet up drinking a glass of tea and enjoy it now because child birth is not a easy and you will need your energy for that. You can make up for your normal cranky self after the baby comes.

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