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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/12/2006 8:44:27 AM

Pimpernell

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Now from my perspective, I've only had 2 girls who could deepthroat me, so I'm used to it.
I know one had her tonsils removed when she was younger, so maybe that's worth a try?

I've never heard anyone suggest that before. I know I had my tonsils and adenoids removed at age 5 and it doesn't seem to have any effect either way.

Well, obviously I was joking, but I did notice them not being there. It weirded me out a little, because I couldn't figure out why the BJ felt so different. I didn't know until later that she'd had them removed.

I had my adenoids removed when I was very young, but I think they've grown back.

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/12/2006 9:13:39 AM

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I had always depended on my oral talents to lend credence to my submissive-abilities. I used it as a ticket, I guess, into first dates, second dates, hell, whole relationships.
Then I met a man who said he didn't care about BJs, really.
Would sooner I kissed his feet.
Wanted ownership.
Wanted another kind of worship altogether.
Not that he minded the sun shining, but really, it was peripheral.
and
I fell in love with him.

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/12/2006 9:25:32 AM

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You know raiken. I used to have major troubles deep throating. I did a search on the web though and found this great site and since I'm not on my computer I can't post the link for you. But I found that the more I relax the better off I am and I also practiced with a popsicle for awhile. I also think a lot of it has to do with the person your with. Until recently with my Daddy I wasn't able to do it, but he has been so patient that I absolutely love to do it for him now that I have managed to get over my bad gag reflex.

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/12/2006 10:33:12 AM

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The post reminds Me of a T-shirt I once saw. And before everyone gets all up in arms..RELAX..it wasn't My t-shirt, nor do I necessarily prescribe to it's sentiments, however, it seems apropos:

"Male Doms are just in it for the BJs"

Greetings funseekers and gentle readers...

So there I was, reading the current Vanity Fair
as part of my marketing-contining-education to keep in
touch with the "normal" world's concerns and gestalt.....

And Christopher Hitchens,
a political deviant, a iconoclastic pervert if there ever was one,
and one of the top three essayists alive today
writes 4000 erudite words on blowjobs ...

One of the best quotes... of many hilarious ones...
addresses the age old question .... What do men really want...

Acey told me she was at a party and she said to a man,
What do men really want from women,
and he said, Blowjobs,
and she said, You can get that from men.

Another one ....
a man's young daughter is reading about Clinton and Monica
and it's reported that he had oral sex with her in the Oval Office vestibule.

The daughter is naturally curious about this,
and asks her father the dreaded question...

.... "Daddy, what's a vestibule?"

DD .... I read hitchens with all the glossy pics and adverts
for Dior and Chanel, but turns out the article bare of ads is at
http://www.vanityfair.com/commentary/content/articles/060619roco01

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/12/2006 11:11:05 AM

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and on another note.....someone mentioned they were cut loose for not giving head? Just out of curiosity.....any of you ladies cut a guy for not going down on the ol muffin.....??????

can we cut him loose if He does when we dont want???

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/12/2006 11:47:19 AM

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Hey y'all...

i can't tell You how great this thread is -- for those who's problems are so similar (sometimes it gets a little lonely thinking i'm the "only" one who has these issues) and some of the solutions (some i use, some new) so thanks. i'm not sure i'll have need of them anytime soon, but will be glad to know...

huggles to y'all and giggles
cheers
jimini

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/12/2006 1:53:33 PM

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I am one of those people that loves giving BJs in any way I can, and I love deep throating because I have a slight fixation with breath play, and this is the only way I am allowed to experience it, by depriving myself of air while I deep throat. When I am finished I am in subspace. I have difficulty moving, difficulty standing, and I shake slightly.. it is quite a bit of fun for me. I do not hold my breath long enough to do any damage to me, and he will hold my head just long enough to make me squirm for a breath of air. I do not have trouble suppressing my gag reflex, and I find that is is good exercise for my TMJ (which I have had jaw surgery for). If I was ever sore he would understand this because I do have jaw problems that he is aware of. I am likely not to complain as I am extremely fixated this way, and will ask for permission to do this at times.

As far as rejecting someone that refuses to do this, or can't do this... well I have rejected doms for not being into sadism.. if it is important to someone's happiness that they have someone that enjoys this before they pursue a dynamic with that person, well I have to say I see nothing wrong in that, although the ones you spoke of were pretty rude in the way they handled your answers to their questions... I do not think they deserve to be beaten because of it. There are many men this is not important to, but I have to say from what I have seen and read on the subject prostitutes claim this is the one thing that is most requested because so many wives/girlfriends refuse to do it, or do not do it well. I do not think that is a good reason to cheat, nor it is ok, but hearing that made me think that perhaps men want this far more than most are willing to admit.

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RE: Deep throating issues? - 8/13/2006 8:04:54 AM

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Now from my perspective, I've only had 2 girls who could deepthroat me, so I'm used to it.
I know one had her tonsils removed when she was younger, so maybe that's worth a try?

I've never heard anyone suggest that before. I know I had my tonsils and adenoids removed at age 5 and it doesn't seem to have any effect either way.

you were deepthroating before age 5 LA? lol

Actually, the bigger the tonsils the less space for a good sized cock....

and furthermore.... adenoids are NOT part of an adults anatomy !! sorry folks.

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