captivesubncuffs
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MistressDivaUSA is right. This is something personal, so you have to consider what aspects of bondage you like. However, if you have not been bound up by a Dom or Domme, then you have to use your imagination a bit. Since the assignment is to present some ideas about being bound by a Domme, then you have to think about the situation a little bit differently. Have you ever thought about being bound and dominated by a Dominatrix? If not, you need to think about how that would differ from an experience with a male Dominant. Have you had Sapphic dreams at some point in the past that excited you or turned you on? If not, is there something that you would like to experience in that realm? Consider the movies that you've seen or recall some ancient conversations that you might have been a party to. For example, a Domme might put you into a much more intricate position than a male might. Access to your sex is an issue that should be considered. A Domme interested in penetrating you with a dildo can place you into bondage positions that would make penetration by a male impossible, but would only be a minor problem for penetration with a dildo. Would you expect a Domme to handle your breasts more tenderly or more roughly than a Dom? Would she tease you with feather-light butterfly kisses? Would she scrape her sharp nails over your flesh or would she brush them lightly over your skin, teasing and tormenting you? It is also likely that a Domme would be more in touch with your approach to orgasm, and would know how to take advantage of that situation better than a male. Further, a Domme would have a greater appreciation of your emotional statel. Some males, like me, are very empathic creatures, but i am not a Dom. i am a very romantic person, and my feminine aspects are a very important part of my personality, but even still, i cannot always understand the emotions of a Female because there are strictly Female experiences, such as dressing up in a gorgeous gown and going to a prom, which i have never lived through. That gap in understanding will obviously be true for any Dom, especially since most of Them will be far more masculine than i am.
Another thought is that a Domme will understand better how to push you to your threshholds as She will know better than any male how to stimulate you, especially when you are tied up like a pretzel. So will She prolong your excitement, keeping you on the edge? Or will She drive you mercilessly to climax after climax, driving you crazy with pleasure overload? And you won't be able to do a thing to stop Her? And then, of course, there is the issue of how She will choose to use you for Her pleasure. So think about the kinds of touch that make you grab the wooden posts of the headboard in ecstacy, and squeeze them with every bit of energy in your body; then consider what you might be asked to do by a Domme to give Her that kind of erotic explosion.
Well, i don't know if my suggestions will help in any way, but feel free to drop me a note off the forum if you want more advice or suggestions.
In bondage and petticoats,
prissy peter
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