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A true submissive - 12/16/2004 9:03:45 AM

INSIDEYOURMIND

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I see from time to time submissives that question their submissiveness, or their resolve to submit to a Master.

I am writing this as an update to my original post of THE FATES WERE WITH US, and I wanted to share my feelings with all of you.

I met my sub here about 6 months ago, I have considerable experience in this lifestyle, and was looking for a sub to live it 24/7.

I will not go into how we met, that story is told in the original thread. I want everyone to know that they should not get discouraged but to be patient.

My sub had no realtime experience in the BDSM world, but what she did have was desire, she read, she learned, and she talked to others in the lifestyle.

When we met, she was ready to give of herself fully, and has done so very well.

If you are a regular reader of these forums, you know that I am awaiting a heart transplant, and because of it, I am limited in what I can, or cannot do. In some, and even to me, it could be seen as being weak, and slightly less Domly. My sub has never waivered in her service to me, she works a regular job, and even after a long day she is quick to take on her submissive role and cater to my wishes.

This sub with little realtime experience, has shown me that she is a true submissive, it has nothing to do with experience because it is who and what she is.

I have come to love her with all my heart, and will cherish her for as long as I am able.

cynnacent, as you say in your signature, be a proud submissive, because I am truly proud to call you mine.

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RE: A true submissive - 12/18/2004 6:47:05 AM

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What a wonderful story!! I wish the both of you many years of happiness.

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RE: A true submissive - 12/18/2004 2:16:57 PM

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I am so glad that you met a great sub here. I agree that it takes patience to find the right person, whether sub or Dom (or switch!). However, it is a waste of time to rush things or get frustrated with not having instant gratification!

I wish you the best with your medical situation, and hope all goes well. for you, and your sub. Happy Holidays!

Mark

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RE: A true submissive - 12/19/2004 2:51:53 AM

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Nice, nice, nice,,,
hope you will get a good heart soon....

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RE: A true submissive - 12/23/2004 8:46:47 PM

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Congradulations on finding someone. May you spend good happy times together. Hopefully you'll get a heart. I know it's hard to hope in a morbid way. Waiting for someone to become brain dead can be an odd thing. I work in a trauma unit myself and see atleast one patient from an accident become brain dead every 2 weeks and I do everything I can with transplant services to make donation possible. I myself am a Donor.

Again it's great that you are with someone. Though I recently join the site, I enjoy your post and reply's to others and can tell you are a person who likes to help others. My you have happy hollidays.

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RE: A true submissive - 1/5/2005 6:29:02 PM

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What a story of inspiration!! wishing you both the best,,,,sometimes a willing soul and mind is all that is needed.
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RE: A true submissive - 1/9/2005 8:31:21 PM

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Nice and sweet, congrats :)

remember a good submissive will always tell her Dom/Master when she does bad outside his precense.

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RE: A true submissive - 1/10/2005 11:36:07 AM

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quote:

remember a good submissive will always tell her Dom/Master when she does bad outside his precense.

Was that comment directed to something?

Did you mean presence?

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RE: A true submissive - 1/15/2005 8:17:45 AM

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INSIDE,

i am reminded of other threads about the use/meaning of the word "true."

In my humble opinion, each Dom will assess "true" subjectively.
And each sub/slave will assess a "true Dom" subjectively based on their own education, experience, needs, etc.

i have noticed 99% of the time, peeps want to define others by their own subjective data of what and who the O/other should be like.

The attidtude, desire and will is of utmost importance. Presently i chat with several girls who desires so badly, but sulk in self pity about not finding, will not risk and step out of their comfort zone, and almost seem to demand that a Dom fall at their feet begging for them their gift, which is not demonstrated at all.

i also, do not put stock in the need for real time experience prior to a relationship.
A girl is either who she says she is or is possibly trying to be and must take the risk. She must have the will and attitude.
i do not tell a girl she is not really a true submission when i have never met her, but so often, words do speak volumes when we email and chat.

i think is all i wanted to share ...something else weighs heavy on me tho, so will start a thread.

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