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rimbaud -> RE: Frequency of Submissive Response (8/8/2006 3:05:12 AM)
But isn't it more fun when it is done for just one?

fullofgrace -> RE: Frequency of Submissive Response (8/8/2006 3:07:15 AM)
well in general, as beth said, i tend to take a submissive role in pretty much every relationship. i'm able to be dominant where it's necessary, but my inner tendency is towards submissiveness. there are submissives/slaves who are like that and many, i know, who are submissive only to certain people. my previous post was more geared to sexual/relationship submissiveness, or submissiveness in an acknowledged bdsm context.

MzMinx -> RE: Frequency of Submissive Response (8/8/2006 4:51:37 AM)
smiles ...I get a dominant response ... to certain people... some just make me purrrr and I so want to have them on their knees and what ever else my imagination conjours up ........ and others who are beautiful people and lovely submissives just dont trigger that extra yumm factor... I can even think they are sexy and cute .. but not desire to dom them... I have had one who trigered the desire to submit smiles my Mentor ... It was always more a Mentor/student style of relationship.. although he did trigger submission from me ... smiles ...no one else has even come close ... somethings are just special .. and are right for where you are at that time But I dont find it any more unsual than the fact, that athough I have explored and played with a few lovers and such in my life ...... I had only deeply loved two men before I knew WIIWD....now I can say its three ... I dont expect that number to grow by 10's and 20's in my lifetime even being poly ... I still think the complete chemistry and conection between two or more is special and relatively rare... not just because someone likes some of the kinks I do

Mercnbeth -> RE: Frequency of Submissive Response (8/8/2006 8:14:12 AM)
quote: ORIGINAL: rimbaud But isn't it more fun when it is done for just one? this slave's submissive journey has been full of fun, regardless of how many she served concurrently...and lots of other adjectives!!! hanging out with others who would be accepting of this slave's path, having fun and perhaps a little slap and tickle at the same time was the impetus behind actively pusuing a specifically D/s relationship for this slave at the age of 36. coming into the realization that there were labels for this sort of relationship orientation at that time didn't magically change who this slave was "into" that label...this slave had already been serving relationships with vigor. this slave had no idea that there existed people who longed for a "One" to inspire, or earn their submission or service. in this slave's experience, the M/s relationship that Master and His slave live and enjoy each and every day was not what this slave sought out or expected or even thought possible, at that time. indeed it has been exhilirating, intoxicating, a blessing and LOADS of fun for this slave's service to be accepted by Master ~ He is an incredibly fun individual...but this slave would not say that generically, serving "just one" is any more or less fun than serving "more than one".

popeye1250 -> RE: Frequency of Submissive Response (8/8/2006 11:11:03 AM)
Yeah, I've always had a problem with that "One" thing. I can imagine there being many, many out there who could be a "One." Relationships take time to grow and if two people become involved and like and then love one another then that person to the other is the "One."

SexyRed -> RE: Frequency of Submissive Response (8/8/2006 12:58:10 PM)
god, saying "submissive response" makes it sounds so...clinical, when in reality, it is an indefinable chemical attraction that makes me submissive to a specific person. although I have been engaged in this since age 16, I have only really, really felt that "spark of submission" with 4 men, all long term serious relationships. all my other relationships, short or long term, I behaved in a submissive manner when I felt like it, but they did not elicit that overwhelming wave of submissive desire as the other 4 did. In those relationships, I could say no; in the major 4, I could still say no but did not want to, that was the difference. I believe that when you are a confident, intelligent, spirited submissive woman, those who can truly elicit that feeling are few and far between.

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