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coca -> REGRETS??? (8/11/2006 11:43:00 PM)

 
Did you  gave any wrong decisions and tried to do it and did it... and after a while you thought   ~it was soo stupid~why did i do `it`?? regret about it? 
 
 


here is mine: 
when i was 16 years old , i asked to my girlfriend to brand Her name on my stomach. She did it. ~Mistress XXXX~
After doing it (3-4 months later) She dated with an another boy and finished our relation.
I felt terrible , lonely , and i had Her name on me branded! and this idea was mine.! That was my regret for a long time..


regards
coca







ToServeIsToLive -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 12:34:46 AM)

i do something really stupid about once a year that i realize i should have seen was stupid before doing.  i never regret it though.  Regret doesn't do anything positive



coca -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 12:54:47 AM)

so what was it??



ToServeIsToLive -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 1:02:50 AM)

Well, mine are mundane compared to yours.  Things like deciding to do a project in a weird way to be different only to have it totally flop, which resulted a really bad grade in a course I was doing decent in otherwise.



obis -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 4:29:31 AM)

I regret the things I didn't do.

Most of the stupid things I actually did, while I may regret them for months or a few years afterwards, I come to accept as a part of who I am. They make great stories if funny, or great learning experiences if not, but I consider it almost dangerous to wish I hadn't done them, since I'd be a different person.

I regret buying $700 worth of stock with money I didn't have in college because I was convinced the company was going to do great things. Of course it went bankrupt within two years. [8|]



coca -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 5:13:05 AM)

Maybe i couldnt explain exactly?
I am interested in Regrets regarding your BDSM desicions..:)

one can desire to be whipped chained or to be forced feminization etc..
But after a long time long... regret about it..??.

if noone has regrets here , it is great...... :)


coca






sweetnsoftinpa -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 5:40:48 AM)

the only thing i regret is close to your i have my ex's nic name tatooed on my arm. i am going to get it covered and have my nic name for my niece, blue eyed, blond haired, devil put there to cover it as soon as i can find someone to do it



hizgeorgiapeach -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 5:56:57 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: coca
Maybe i couldnt explain exactly?
I am interested in Regrets regarding your BDSM desicions..:)


I've never regretted any of my BDSM related decisions.  The things that I've done that might cause "regret" at least taught me about myself and what I like, need, will and won't tolerate - so there's nothing TO regret.  While there are a few of my past relationships that I wish at times I hadn't been in - those taught me something as well, either about myself, or about humanity in general.
 
I've had a standing rule since I was in my teens about doing things like getting branded, or being inked with someone else's name unless it is an all out Memorial piece for someone who is Dead - I won't. 



babysburnin -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 1:19:56 PM)

I have yet to regret any of my BDSM decisions ... and I don't plan on regreting any in the future.  What bothers me, being relatively new, is that people are under the assumption that BDSM excuses rational behavior.  We all make choices ... for many, many reasons.  If one makes realitively "wise" choices, there's no regret.  If one makes a choice that leads to any "hurt", then it's therefore viewed as as an "unwise" decision.  I disagree.  I have learned more (or grown personally) from my "unwise" decisions.  Disclaimer:  I'm not looking for unwise decisions anymore, I've grow and aged ... but I do appreciate my "mistakes", as well as my accomplishments.



gentlethistle -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 3:34:18 PM)

Regrets?  I've had a few.  But then again...
...too many to mention.

Laura



LaTigresse -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 3:38:27 PM)

oui and non..............life is too short for regrets, besides, what good do they do? What's done is done, nothing can be changed, it is in the past. I can only control what is now, today I regret nothing.



missturbation -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/12/2006 3:42:28 PM)

I don't regret anything. The bad things have always taught me something so i don't regret them.



Sirandlittle1 -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/13/2006 12:08:09 AM)

ill not say i regret things ive decided to do, just view it as a 'learning curve' and move on.
I have some regrets of stuff ive not done. But life is long.
And having pegs applied to my labia! fucking hell, wish id never done that! what a load of crap that turned out to be lol but each to their own.
I regret visiting club libertine a few weeks ago, ugggggh!
that's about it



captiveplatypus -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/13/2006 12:59:35 AM)

signing up for this site!

it's addictive. *shifty*



HarryVanWinkle -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/13/2006 1:25:22 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: gentlethistle

Regrets?  I've had a few.  But then again...
...too many to mention.

Laura


But, did you do it your way? 



behindmirrors -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/13/2006 9:05:05 AM)

No BDSM regrets yet.


As far as the rest of my life: I don't like keeping regrets around. There are too many things in life I'd rather be doing than tearing myself up over what is past. If I learned something from it, if it has shaped me into who I am, I would rather see it for it's positive than it's negative.



Bearlee -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/13/2006 9:20:00 AM)

 
The only thing I regret is the time I spend getting to know someone who suddenly dissappears.  How is it ya can spend a week laughing yer ass off with somebody who seems to have so much in common with you, only to have them dissappear when ya make a date?  But hey, I suppose this isn't as bad as the 'dom' I dated for six months who turned out to be married!  <sigh>  I know, I know; don't take it personally, move on...  I will...but I still regret meeting such people.  How long can a person continue opening up and trusting people to be civil...and real?  I'll just never understand WHY they do this...



azuredeli8 -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/13/2006 9:58:48 AM)

I agree wholeheartedly, have been tricked by my own mind wanting SO MUCH for 'this one' to be the answer to my deepest desires....
not much advice to share, other than you are not alone and hope the learning experience balances with the disappointment...
Keep smiling, it'll piss the liars off...lol
azure



bondbabe -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/13/2006 12:26:44 PM)

i have NEVER regretted anything i have done. life is far too short. they are experiences we have to go through to test ourselves. to put total trust in a Master is the greatest gift he can recieve from his slave.



proudsub -> RE: REGRETS??? (8/13/2006 1:35:37 PM)

quote:

Did you  gave any wrong decisions and tried to do it and did it... and after a while you thought   ~it was soo stupid~why did i do `it`?? regret about it?  
 


Yes, having an affair with a local dom instead of going to Hubby first with my needs, and letting that dom take pictures of me which were posted in a photo contest without my consent. Very stupid of me.[:o]



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