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popeye1250 -> Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 10:22:53 AM)

This is kind of a follow up to the other thread in here.
How do you engage in your rape fantasy?
Do you have your Sir/ Master hide in the house somewhere and "surprise" you?
Do you set a certain "time" when it will start?
Do you act out an abduction scene?
I'm wondering how the "mechanics" of it work for you and how you actuate it.
Thankyou.



LuckyAlbatross -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 12:25:32 PM)

I was abducted and raped at a Leather Retreat once.  Events like that tend to have their own kidnapping team that you can request scenes for to enjoy that- but this was one of my partners setting it up on his own.  A whole surprise and take down, followed by being fucked by different people I didn't know.

When I want to get into it with a partner, I'll usually start feeling the edge of it during foreplay and ask if it's ok if I struggle.  If they say yes....then I struggle. 



popeye1250 -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 1:32:45 PM)

L.A., that sounds like fun!



sub4hire -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 1:49:59 PM)

Being a past attempted rape survivor.  Since Doug also likes rape play from time to time.  I will fight back, it is within me and I will seriously injure someone.
When I was 13 someone tried to rape me.  I do say tried.  He wasn't successful I hurt him pretty bad even back then.
I have much more muscle inside of me now.  Anyway, when first instinct is to fight back.  He has to give me a day or two to get in the right frame of mind so I don't just hurt him.
It always works for us.  It is an idea.  Surprise sounds ok but it would'nt work with a lot of us.



WhipTheHip -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 1:58:59 PM)

> Rape Fantasies, how do you do them?

Every imaginable way possible and then some.



slavejlb -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 3:31:01 PM)

i deal with them by knowing they are just my fanstie and they will never happen fake or real,



formenteralady -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 7:08:05 PM)

I think the communication before or after is really what's most important here, because really the best way to live out this kind of fantasy is going to be to understand the limits of whomever you are playing with.  Some people might be down with a complete supprise senario, someone else might need you to do this with in very set limits where they know at all times they can opt out with a safe word, and some people will just not be ok with this at all.   




popeye1250 -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 7:19:08 PM)

Formentor, I meant how would *YOU* do it if you were going to engage in it.



Littlepita -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 7:25:46 PM)

We have been talking about this one for awhile now. Total surprise sounds good in fantasy but I worry that like sub4hire I might hurt him. We do think my knowing it could happen but not that exact how and where is exciting. I suggested it might be fun to get me right as i was coming out of the bathroom from taking a shower or coming in from shopping.

We also have talked about just doing it as a role play. We both like resistance play and a rape scene would be stepping that up a few notches.

Maybe soon I will find out. [;)]



mp072004 -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 7:41:28 PM)

A friend of mine described an arrangement he (the mock-rapist, or ravisher) developed with a female mock-victim, or ravishee. They agreed that she would signal availability to be ravished by turning on a porch light, and if the light was on, he could forcibly enter the house and they could launch their fantasy plot. I thought this was a lovely idea, because it allowed for an element of actual surprise and unpredictability.

Monica



michaelGA2 -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 7:41:54 PM)

i'm abit reluctant to pursue my rape-fantasy due to the "Male Factor". something i refuse to be a part of.



formenteralady -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 7:51:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: popeye1250

Formentor, I meant how would *YOU* do it if you were going to engage in it.


haha, dur.  I'm a fan of the hideing in the house while they think you are out, probably just after they come home from the store or somewhere, then when they are doing something sneek up on them, blind fold them, restrain them, then possibly some spanking/mocking, then have you way with them.

I like the hideing in the house senario because for one thing some people don't live on a ground floor, and number two you don't have neighbors wonder why they just saw the legs of someone slide in an open window and call the police.  Plus it has that voilated in a famlair place, did I let them in the door, how long have they been watching me? psychological elements, and I would indludge them in that by discribeing thier actions as they moved through the house.



Homestead -> RE: Rape Fantasies, how do you do them? (8/12/2006 8:30:11 PM)

fantasy rape =oxymoron



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