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SweetDommes -> RE: Why Dont People Want Me (8/16/2006 9:30:55 AM)
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ORIGINAL: mons
but many of us are dyslexic and it is a struggle to write and i am so smart my writing is not all of me
Please do not read this as a personal attack, this is not about you - it's just a huge pet peeve of mine.
I am also dyslexic - it's not as severe as some people's but it's still there. I have learned to re-read and proofread like crazy when I'm posting or writing letter and e-mails to people. I leave some mistakes, but not very many. I know of others who have far more severe dyslexia who do the same thing and they leave no more mistakes than I do by the time they are finished. I pushed myself to do this, and I'm sorry, but I expect others to do the same. Dyslexia is one of those learning disabilities that CAN be overcome and accomodated for - if nothing else, type in a word processing program and do spell check (when I'm very tired, this is what I have to do, or it all comes out as gibberish). I know that there are people who do work hard at it - but there are also a lot of people that use something like dyslexia as an excuse for horrid grammar and attrocious spelling. I refuse to accept it. If I can do it, and my friend Erich can do it - then they bloody well can too.
On topic - yeah ... dude, I wouldn't touch you with a 100 foot pole. First, there is the whining that you can't find anyone - join the club ... Second, there is the lack of self control implied by your profile, as well as the risk of diseases that you can aquire through that lack of self control. Then the lack of standards that you have for a partner ... we don't want someone who will submit to anyone (not that it seems you are really submissive at this point - sexual bottom is more appropriate), we want someone who submits to no one but us, someone who is picky about who they choose to give their submission to. The fact that you are only interested in what will be done 'to' you is a huge turnoff. Yeah, ultimately the submissive has the power because he/she can leave - but it's still not all about you. I'm sure you can find someone who will give you want you want, but they'll likely give you a lot more than you bargained for. Most Dominants that I know (both male and female) are interested in far more than just the sexual aspects of a relationship, and women, overall, want to be courted. I can't imagine someone with a profile like yours is capable of courting anyone or anything other than trouble.
If you are serious about this (which, I have my doubts - you seem to be of the variety that thinks BDSM = easy sex), then change your profile, get a better picture (or just don't have one), and do some growing up.
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