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what about teasing and denial - 8/16/2006 7:54:32 AM   
fadisub


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Status: offline 		so far i havent seen any discussion concering this. i get teased and denied at least once a day. i get to the point where im so close to cumming and then stop. Is this thing safe ? im dying to find out the answer coz i have been doing it for quite some time ... thanks
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RE: what about teasing and denial - 8/16/2006 8:01:06 AM   
Yang4yin


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Status: offline 		Safe? Sure.
Uncomfortable? Probably.
Frustrating? Definitely!
 
Have you ever experienced prostate massage (often called prostate milking)? Some male submissives are "milked" by receiving an internal prostate massage, rarely being allowed the full release of having a normal orgasm.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 8/16/2006 3:53:32 PM   
MmakeMme


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Status: offline 		Yummmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmmyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyyy.

I don't know what color jealous is ... but whatever color it is, that's my skin tone right now.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 8/20/2006 10:16:21 PM   
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ORIGINAL: fadisub

so far i havent seen any discussion concering this. i get teased and denied at least once a day. i get to the point where im so close to cumming and then stop. Is this thing safe ? im dying to find out the answer coz i have been doing it for quite some time ... thanks


It is definitely safe. The benefits outweigh the insanity it can cause. Like you I experience this on a daily basis and for the most part I don't have a problem. Unlike some I enjoy being restricted and believe it makes me more attuned and attentive as a submissive. I must admit that the heightened sensitivity and effects of depravity are well worth the final release that comes. Many employ these techniques to control this area of your life and to emphasis mindfulness too. Enjoy your torture.

porcelaine

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 8/20/2006 10:30:29 PM   
DiurnalVampire


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Status: offline 		Its safe, I do it with my boy as well. I know that there has to be some release at some point, but teasing and denying for week or months cant hurt you as long as every now and again you do release.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 9/3/2006 6:10:27 PM   
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Status: offline 		I was always under the impression that if a man doesn't have sex or masturbate, the body will deal with it in another way, either by the man having a wet dream or by the body reabsorbing the sperm.  Either way, your body stays healthy and you still don't get the pleasure of a normal orgasm.  Personally though, I wouldn't let one of my slaves go more than six months without either a milking or a typical ograsm.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 9/3/2006 8:45:10 PM   
Estring


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Status: offline 		I was told by a doctor that regular orgasms were a good way to keep the prostate healthy. So I am not sure that that much denial is benign. But maybe some medical people will weigh in.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 9/7/2006 3:33:15 PM   
onestandingstill


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Status: offline 		Physically yes, but man that's a hard one. Good luck. You can be strong and get through it but you'll have to take a lot of deep cleansing breaths and cold showers. Sexual control training can indeed make you nutso sometimes.
I have faith you can do it for Him,
Suzanne

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 9/19/2006 2:31:20 PM   
cyberdude611


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ORIGINAL: dommemst

I was always under the impression that if a man doesn't have sex or masturbate, the body will deal with it in another way, either by the man having a wet dream or by the body reabsorbing the sperm.  Either way, your body stays healthy and you still don't get the pleasure of a normal orgasm.  Personally though, I wouldn't let one of my slaves go more than six months without either a milking or a typical ograsm.

The bodies of some men may deal with it through wet dreams and such. Some will not. Some men have never had a wet dream.
There are no studies that say that it is unhealthy if a man does not ejaculate for a long period of time. There is also no studies that say it is safe. And there wont be any studies either since such a study would take a lifetime to see the results.

As far as absorbing. Yes the body reabsorbs either sperm that is unhealthy or unused. However, if the glands are never pumping out fluid (semen), the fluid could build up toxins over the long term. Some say ejaculation is a way for the male system to flush itself out.

Again...no studies on this. But best to err on the side of caution.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 9/19/2006 3:59:55 PM   
ayasha


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quote:

ORIGINAL: fadisub

so far i havent seen any discussion concering this. i get teased and denied at least once a day. i get to the point where im so close to cumming and then stop. Is this thing safe ? im dying to find out the answer coz i have been doing it for quite some time ... thanks


LOL - OK, here goes the medical person!!! 

The bacteria in the urethra back-track through the urinary and reproductive structures to the epididymis.   The epididymis are tubes that run along the back of each testicle. 
 
During ejaculation, sperm flow from the lower portion of the epididymis (which functions as a storage reservoir) via muscle action, mixing with other fluids to form semen prior to ejaculation.  
 
Occasionally this bacteria does cause an infection (epididimytis) - this can usually be prevented by ejaculating at regular intervals (which washes out the tubes and storage areas).  This can be compared to a person urinating which washes out the urethra. 
 
There is absolutely no study on how often this occurs; or how often a man should experience ejaculation.  So one guesses the answer is?  When your Master/Mistress allows it! 
 
~ ayasha ~

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 9/20/2006 10:04:10 AM   
Dommeseeksone


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Status: offline 		I have used teasing and denial with my slave sence he became mine and when he has been aloud release he has found it to be the most potent exseriance reward yet. As top the health of it. I did ask my doctor about it before doing so as I take the health of my property very seriously. He told me that it was not a true health issue as long as he did not display simptoms of infections or blue balls....lol. I have monatered for such things and we have injoyed our life of teasing and denial every sense.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 2/17/2007 12:50:32 PM   
grlneedstolearn


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Status: offline 		Totally agree with Yang4yin on it being frustrating

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 3/11/2007 11:54:44 PM   
zindyslave


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Status: offline 		If I guy is being stimulated and close to orgasm and then denied it can increase the time it takes for him to ejacluate. It is actually a exercise people with premature ejacuation problems to do stop the p.e.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 3/12/2007 8:17:49 AM   
Unrepentant1


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ORIGINAL: dommemst

I was always under the impression that if a man doesn't have sex or masturbate, the body will deal with it in another way, either by the man having a wet dream or by the body reabsorbing the sperm.  Either way, your body stays healthy and you still don't get the pleasure of a normal orgasm.  Personally though, I wouldn't let one of my slaves go more than six months without either a milking or a typical ograsm.



How considerate of you, lol.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 4/6/2009 7:44:07 AM   
Balls4Pain


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Status: offline 		There is growing evidence that lack of regular function may be associated with prostatic hypertrophy and even cancer. This is the latest. However, I had heard from a teacher of mine a long time ago (PhD that worked in cancer reseach) that he saw higher incidences of reproductive cancer in nuns and priests. I would avoid any form of denial on a regular basis, and for more than two days.

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RE: what about teasing and denial - 4/12/2009 8:42:01 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Status: offline 		Safe. For the most part yes. The frustration can lead to having a mean attitude, stress, and changes in the bodies BP, Muscle Tension, etc....... But hey, you know you like it. Suck it up and drive on. Your dom isn't going to be more sympathetic to your orgasim needs with that "Do you realize how potentially unhealthy this is for me?" Bull Shit.

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