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Why people WANT ME! - 8/16/2006 5:08:09 PM

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The poor schmoe on the "why don't people want me?" has a good 5+ pages going strong, mostly femdoms telling him why he sucks and is about as far from "wantable" as one could get. Rightfully so. The guy has only 1 post, still. I wonder if he even read the responses?

A LOT of women made comments on that thread. It made me think -- damn, what if there were a thread by a sub called "Why people want me" -- and he was able to pinpoint why femdoms have been attracted to him, why he was in demand, why he had options for dating, etc.

Femdoms -- what would this "dream sub"s post look like?

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/16/2006 5:30:09 PM

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I HAVE NO LIM1TS!!!!111

PLZ D0M1NAT3 ME!!!!!!!1oneon111!!

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/16/2006 5:47:03 PM

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*laughs* I know why I'm 'wanted'. It's because my profile has a picture and half the male population seems interested by it. Even the sub males, who seem to think I'm some sort of non-paid centerfold for their amusement.

'Got anymore pics?' Why, no... no, I don't.

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/16/2006 6:02:51 PM

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I imagine there will be varied ideas of desirability. One person might say he was desirable because he engaged in relationships as a lover and as a submissive, perhaps in a long-term fashion--another might say she was desirable because she kept love-relationships separate from inequal power or service relationships. My "dream submissive" would like everything I liked right out of the box, but I know one dominant woman who prefers to introduce people to her favorite activities, and I know another dominant who likes submissives who don't like activities but consent to them. While I would think most dominant women would want to receive service--who doesn't want an effortlessly clean bathroom?--reading these boards has taught me that that isn't even uniform.

I can offer only a few things that would be observed frequently in desirable people. Frank and elegant communication. Clearly identified goals. Well-defined, symmetrical facial features.

Monica

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/16/2006 7:58:21 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Femdoms -- what would this "dream sub"s post look like?

Well, I could cut and paste the profiles of my two submissives, each pretty much answers the question ... in entirely different ways. There are no short cuts.

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/16/2006 8:18:23 PM

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*laughs* I know why I'm 'wanted'. It's because my profile has a picture and half the male population seems interested by it. Even the sub males, who seem to think I'm some sort of non-paid centerfold for their amusement.

'Got anymore pics?' Why, no... no, I don't.

zuma

half the male population + 1 (what can I say...that pic is uh....hot?)

PS...got any more pics??? lmao.... seriously...thats a compliment...

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/16/2006 11:21:07 PM

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This is a trick question because truly desirable subs are too busy serving to write about why they are so desirable.

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 8:22:54 AM

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ORIGINAL: zumala

*laughs* I know why I'm 'wanted'. It's because my profile has a picture and half the male population seems interested by it. Even the sub males, who seem to think I'm some sort of non-paid centerfold for their amusement.

'Got anymore pics?' Why, no... no, I don't.

zuma

half the male population + 1 (what can I say...that pic is uh....hot?)

PS...got any more pics??? lmao.... seriously...thats a compliment...

LOL Thanks! Seriously though... why are sub males checking out sub female profiles? That always baffles me.

zuma

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 8:55:09 AM

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Does it really baffle you, zumala?

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 8:58:19 AM

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LOL Thanks! Seriously though... why are sub males checking out sub female profiles? That always baffles me.

zuma

because of one word in your sentence........MALE

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 9:12:52 AM

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This is a trick question because truly desirable subs are too busy serving to write about why they are so desirable.

I couldn't agree more

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 9:27:42 AM

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They want me because of my shoes, thanks to some advice I got on another post in this forum.

Ron

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 9:29:32 AM

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i think the reason a Mistress would want me is to knock some sense into me and teach me a lesson...(but i already know how to be a brat)...LOL

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 9:46:51 AM

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ORIGINAL: zumala

LOL Thanks! Seriously though... why are sub males checking out sub female profiles? That always baffles me.

zuma

because of one word in your sentence........MALE

Hmm... good point.

zuma (now enlightened, LOL)

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 11:21:50 AM

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ORIGINAL: IndigoDadesi

This is a trick question because truly desirable subs are too busy serving to write about why they are so desirable.

I read that Aakasha is interested in what FemDom's would be looking for in a profile or written word that would make a male sub desireable. Not what the male sub thinks makes him desireable.

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

Femdoms -- what would this "dream sub"s post look like?

Akasha

It is actually a hard question, because it not only includes an attitude and an indication of immediate obedience (such as respondiong with an email according to profile instructions), but a sense of the possibility that this might be a match. Unfortunately it is easier for Me to say what it is I don't want to see (which could be taken as negative) as opposed to what I do want to see. There are intangibles one can sense in postings and emails and profiles.
But I did try to make it as clear as I could in My profile.

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 4:03:56 PM

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This is a trick question because truly desirable subs are too busy serving to write about why they are so desirable.

*snickers* Very well stated Ma'am.

I prefer someone that has a command of language and can communicate this without trepidation. Ideally the person has some idea what he or she is seeking and can express this without stuttering or refering to the dominant's profile for a hint. I think there's an array of characteristics I'd look for but in all honesty most of that wouldn't be identifiable until we've conversed to some length and shared time face to face. People list an array of traits and skills that are a figment of their imagination or utilized to garner additional attention. I usually cut to the chase and ask why that person is single instead. This gives me greater insight than a few sentences ever could.

porcelaine

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 4:17:20 PM

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Gee, as we all know, female subs would never check out male sub profiles. In fact, it hasn’t happened to me all day. Well, ok, two. And no female anythings have ever asked me for more pics. I get, um, I mean, I would be shocked and outraged if that ever happened.

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 4:24:17 PM

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ORIGINAL: AAkasha

The poor schmoe on the "why don't people want me?" has a good 5+ pages going strong, mostly femdoms telling him why he sucks and is about as far from "wantable" as one could get. Rightfully so. The guy has only 1 post, still. I wonder if he even read the responses?

I don't know if I should admit this or not but....I saw me the other day....and I have to tell you...I don't want me either.

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 4:28:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: zumala

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ORIGINAL: stockingluvr54

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ORIGINAL: zumala

*laughs* I know why I'm 'wanted'. It's because my profile has a picture and half the male population seems interested by it. Even the sub males, who seem to think I'm some sort of non-paid centerfold for their amusement.

'Got anymore pics?' Why, no... no, I don't.

zuma

half the male population + 1 (what can I say...that pic is uh....hot?)

PS...got any more pics??? lmao.... seriously...thats a compliment...

LOL Thanks! Seriously though... why are sub males checking out sub female profiles? That always baffles me.

zuma

It's really quite simple Zuma...

We're sluts.

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RE: Why people WANT ME! - 8/17/2006 4:38:43 PM

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I don't want to see a friggin post about how goddamned special or worthy he is. I want to see it in his actions: how he is willing to help others, to be a champion for healthy D/s, and properly carry himself, whether he's representing himself as someone's property or as someone worthy of being someone's prized possession.

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