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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/28/2006 10:41:28 AM

joyinslavery

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I agree LTRsubNW...I wish this thing would just die already. Ugh!

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/28/2006 1:57:20 PM

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I got a good one last night from another site ...

"wanna dominate me?"
That was it, no other intro at all, and because it was an IM on a site that IMs don't work well, I couldn't go to the profile to look at it. I was just irritated and ignored it.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/28/2006 4:44:46 PM

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And another thing ...

I do NOT wish to be told that we're not really Dominant, we're just lazy (and he knows ... even though he has minimal r/t experience) ... simply because we want pets and not punching bags to clean for us.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/28/2006 7:35:18 PM

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lol thats a good one...

I have to admit... I dont have any bad ones to report on from the last couple of days ( thank god lol ) but I have gotten some really really good ones! yay!

<snipped from mail..> Thank you, Goddess: (I'm not sure if that's what you prefer to be called, but thought it appropriate given your photograph) <end snip> I thought that was cute... so I hadda share lol...

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ooooo..I bet THATS gonna leave a mark!!!!

Equal opportunity pisser on-er ... heh..

Gimme some crayons, I want color and I want it now DAMNIT!

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/28/2006 9:14:43 PM

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I'm kind of sad, haven't heard from the one who sent the good e-mail again yet ... but it's only been a few days, so he is probably just busy (hopefully will hear from him again soon *crosses fingers*) It would be nice to keep in contact with someone for a change, even if he turns out to not be what we want.

The previous example was from another site ... and he was insistant that to be dominant, we HAD to treat our submissives badly. He wanted to be treated like trash, and my response was "why would I want to own trash?"

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/28/2006 9:17:56 PM

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Waste Management and others are making a fine living at this very thing..........

Perhaps you can find out what is recycleable within...........

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/28/2006 10:27:37 PM

SweetDommes

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heh, I don't think he had anything left except sludge ... which can be treated, but not actually recycled.

It's like the ones who call themselves "lowly worms" or whatever ... seriously, if I want a worm, I can go dump a bucket of water on the lawn and have my pick of a dozen.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/28/2006 11:03:10 PM

MiladyAngelique

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressOfGa

No, Mistress does not want....

1. To be told she is less than a Mistress if she shows human emotions.
2. To be asked if I will be supplying your "pretty dress up clothes" for you.
3. To open an email that reads "Hi how r u?"
4. To open an email that reads "I am a dom, you may approach" WTF??

quote:

I would have said, that's fine, bring 50,000 dollars in a grocery bag, I'll be brown bagging it, while you do lunch.

THIS is priceless! lol Thanks for the laugh this morning :)

LMAO yes to number 1, sorry I tend to be Human before I am a Domme, you are submissive act like it, figure out why we are upset and deal with it.

BTW if one more sub addresses me as Ms. instead of Mistress or M'lady I will bend him over and flog his ass until it is fluro red. ... acutally no I won't they will like that to much.

Sorry about spelling to tired

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/29/2006 9:47:15 AM

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Hey Ang, you might want to put in your profile how you wish to be addressed. Most women around here feel the same way about being called "mistress" by someone whom they don't own, so that's why many have switched to "Ms."
Not that it will stop some of them, but at least then you'll know if they read your profile or not.

I got one today that I'm not sure if I should be offended or not. He says that he's impressed with the fact that I use proper grammar on our profile, and that we want high class stuff for ourselfs - then states that he loves the dumb women in this state ... LOL

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/30/2006 2:15:01 AM

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It sounds like a lot of subs/slaves are sending unacceptable messages. Personally, I am very polite and respectful in my messages to Dommes. I usually address my message to Dear Ms. ___. It would be helpful if Mistresses/Dommes would note in their profile how they would like to be addressed, so that those of us who are trying to be respectful will not accidentally offend anyone. What I do not understand is, given all these unacceptable messages,why a Domme would not send a message to me in response. Why not acknowledge a polite message? Perhaps I might not be what she is looking for, but I truly appreciate it when a Domme thanks me for my letter of introduction, but mentions that they are looking for something else. (I do not need any specifics, but a "thanks, but no thanks" would be helpful - at least I would know that I have not offended Her in some way.)

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/30/2006 6:00:47 AM

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Ahhh this has been a good read!!! Thought I would add a bit to it.

I don't want to hear about how your wife/s.o. doesn't understand you and your desires. Work out your relationship, I'm not interested in your drama.

I don't want to hear about how you'd love to move to AL, live in my backyard in a tent, serve me naked 24/7...and oh by the way could you send me the money for a plane ticket?
Ehhhh....I live in town, so the first isn't possible and the mosquitos would pack your tail off (hmm..not such a bad idea in some cases) and not just no but HELL no.

I don't want to hear "I live to serve you, you are my world..by the way what is your real name?"
Whaaaaaa???

I'm not saying all my mail is idiocy, but the rate of decent mail to wtf were they thinking mail is no where near being even. I'm not bashing on all submissives or slaves, but really now. Get a clue. I don't mind a submissive writing to me, just make it interesting, say something besides "I want to worship you...how ya doin, and are those titties real????" The first makes me laugh, the second makes me sigh and the third will just get you ignored. And it's not just the men! Some of the females are just as bad.
I answer every mail I get unless it's a one liner or just plain rude, after all I do have manners.
I'd like to know what the majick words are that would make someone completely understand that just because I write erotic fiction doesn't mean I'm going to provide you with intimate details of my sex life and what I do in the privacy of my own home.
Wonder if they will ever come up with an antidote for stupid?

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/30/2006 12:01:35 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MiladyAngelique

BTW if one more sub addresses me as Ms. instead of Mistress or M'lady I will bend him over and flog his ass until it is fluro red. ... acutally no I won't they will like that to much.

Miss is the one that I love. I usually say in reply that I've not been "miss" since I was abuot 6 years old and in a pinafore, white gloves and mary janes.

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RE: No Mistress does NOT want... - 8/30/2006 2:51:30 PM

joyinslavery

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mommysgoodgirl

What I do not understand is, given all these unacceptable messages,why a Domme would not send a message to me in response. Why not acknowledge a polite message? Perhaps I might not be what she is looking for, but I truly appreciate it when a Domme thanks me for my letter of introduction, but mentions that they are looking for something else. (I do not need any specifics, but a "thanks, but no thanks" would be helpful - at least I would know that I have not offended Her in some way.)

It's known as a 'double standard'.

Okay, now back to the more important work of allowing this thread to wither away and die.

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