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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/18/2006 8:55:13 PM   
slaveintheruff


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hello.....she felt as tho,and you say she is a slave...hmmmmmmmmmm.....until she is released she has no right to even think about or for herself...tho i have found that most here confuse slave with submissive

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/18/2006 8:59:29 PM   
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good luck to you.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/18/2006 9:04:02 PM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveintheruff

hello.....she felt as tho,and you say she is a slave...hmmmmmmmmmm.....until she is released she has no right to even think about or for herself...tho i have found that most here confuse slave with submissive


Ok this would be your opinion there is no one right way to be a slaves and what kind of person even a slave doesnt start thinking a bit for herself when in a situation were ones own Master poses the danger.. at that point they arent Dom and slave really she needs to be human first or she will get hurt

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/18/2006 9:25:55 PM   
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that is some relationship you two have if she fucks other guys.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/18/2006 9:25:57 PM   
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Start by sobering up, get a grip on your emotions, stop beggin' for permission to punish a girl that you've thoroughly confused. you present yourself as being active in My chosen lifestyle for twelve years, but you come off as a confuzzled poseur that finds it fairly easy to parrot the word de jour, but unable to cope with a girl in-person.
  Is there something in the air that makes that citys populace make pretensions to grandness? I once knew a motorcyclist from there that made claims about his and his club brothers viciousness, brutality and other such manly-man nonsense far and wide. I discovered thru another Biker that the badass club hired out their enforcing to a smaller club.
  I met several gals from there that claimed to be primo painsluts, few limits, blah, blah, blah. I wasn't overly surprised when they all reconsidered their choice of not incorporating a safeword in the sessions.
  The "mobsters" that, I met turned out to be greek-freaks, wanted to pay Me to beat their asses and buttfuck them. Being straight, I replied in the negative after, I was able to stop gaggin' from the litany of boydawg perversion that they wanted to be made done.
  Even a local trucker that was posing as being able to back a trailer ruined My black reefer unit when a door that he hadn't secured flopped open and tore into the trailers skin.
    One thing that, I will agree with is that Philadelphia has some righteous Philly Cheese/Steak sandwiches, but, I found some that were just as good at the All Harley Drags at ATCO Raceway, and the small cafe at the truckstop in New Jersey. Seems that there's a joint in Georgia, another in Tucson that have them as well, but there wasn't a lot of pompous claims made at them. lol
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ORIGINAL: masterhyyde

My slave has committed a very defiant act and I am at a loss for what type of punishment to use to help remedy the situation.  She against my will and without my permission has slept with another man.  And I am somewhat out of ideas.  Any ideas/advice would be appreciated.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/18/2006 9:40:55 PM   
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I attempted to refrain from answering your post because, I didn't want to sound like the PC Police, BUT, I disagree most profoundly with your observation/opinion or whatever it is concerning a slaves rights, at least in most countrys on Gaia.
  There is some widespread confusion about the interpretations of the words slave and sub'. There are myraid opinions on both and the very diversity of the lifestyle populace makes for many exceptions, to Mine, yours and their interpretations. They can change drasticially with growth and experience; those injured and those sublimely and exquisitely accepting of pains embraces will have differed at different junctures, others will never accept anything beyond what's necessary , such as spanking and play bondage everyother sunday afternoon just to keep the partner that they lied to initially about their interest so that they could find someone to be kinky with when their libidos allowed.
  I refuse to own that which is mindless. I won't micro-manage, I allow many things that some have told Me was not masterly, things such as,,, ah, never mind. I need to go check My girls Slickum Factor.
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ORIGINAL: slaveintheruff

hello.....she felt as tho,and you say she is a slave...hmmmmmmmmmm.....until she is released she has no right to even think about or for herself...tho i have found that most here confuse slave with submissive

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/18/2006 10:30:00 PM   
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First of all what city are you degrading so feverishly?  Philadelphia?  I am not from Philly.  I'm from the NY/NJ region.  Secondly I didn't say anywhere that I had been in YOUR lifestyle for 12 years.  Because I have not.  Thirdly, I do not beg to punish my own slave.  But d/t my admitted newness in the lifestyle I was looking for suggestions. 

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ORIGINAL: leatherorlace

Start by sobering up, get a grip on your emotions, stop beggin' for permission to punish a girl that you've thoroughly confused. you present yourself as being active in My chosen lifestyle for twelve years, but you come off as a confuzzled poseur that finds it fairly easy to parrot the word de jour, but unable to cope with a girl in-person.
  Is there something in the air that makes that citys populace make pretensions to grandness? I once knew a motorcyclist from there that made claims about his and his club brothers viciousness, brutality and other such manly-man nonsense far and wide. I discovered thru another Biker that the badass club hired out their enforcing to a smaller club.
  I met several gals from there that claimed to be primo painsluts, few limits, blah, blah, blah. I wasn't overly surprised when they all reconsidered their choice of not incorporating a safeword in the sessions.
  The "mobsters" that, I met turned out to be greek-freaks, wanted to pay Me to beat their asses and buttfuck them. Being straight, I replied in the negative after, I was able to stop gaggin' from the litany of boydawg perversion that they wanted to be made done.
  Even a local trucker that was posing as being able to back a trailer ruined My black reefer unit when a door that he hadn't secured flopped open and tore into the trailers skin.
    One thing that, I will agree with is that Philadelphia has some righteous Philly Cheese/Steak sandwiches, but, I found some that were just as good at the All Harley Drags at ATCO Raceway, and the small cafe at the truckstop in New Jersey. Seems that there's a joint in Georgia, another in Tucson that have them as well, but there wasn't a lot of pompous claims made at them. lol
Gentry

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ORIGINAL: masterhyyde

My slave has committed a very defiant act and I am at a loss for what type of punishment to use to help remedy the situation.  She against my will and without my permission has slept with another man.  And I am somewhat out of ideas.  Any ideas/advice would be appreciated.


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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/18/2006 11:43:00 PM   
FangsNfeet


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Without knowing a whole lot about your relationship together, I can only go with what your OP says.

Your slave cheated on you. Does she still want to stay with you? How sorry or bad does she feel about what she had done?

Do you really want to continue the relationship and stay with her?

I don't see punishment fixing the problem. A spanking from my parents belt never taught me to keep my hands out of the cookie jar. It just made me become more sneaky.

Like most relationships, counseling seems to be your best option if the two of you are going to make the relationship stick. 

Cheating on her will not solve anything. There's no score to even. However, forcing a sub/slave to watch you have your way with other women are known to bring out various results.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 12:57:49 AM   
leatherorlace


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Imagine that?! Wrong masterhyde or masterhyyde, the latter doesn't compute on this site, but the first does and that's where, I got My errant info'. Still, I'm of the opinion that you need to leave the sauce for the duck and not be shitfaced if you're going to interact with another human unless you enjoy the embarressment usually felt just under the radar of the next days hangover, that embarressment that tells you that you made an ass of your self again, and you're wondering who the guy is that's snuggled up to your booty and pokin' at it as if he felt welcome.
Gentry
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ORIGINAL: masterhyyde

First of all what city are you degrading so feverishly?  Philadelphia?  I am not from Philly.  I'm from the NY/NJ region.  Secondly I didn't say anywhere that I had been in YOUR lifestyle for 12 years.  Because I have not.  Thirdly, I do not beg to punish my own slave.  But d/t my admitted newness in the lifestyle I was looking for suggestions. 

quote:

ORIGINAL: leatherorlace

Start by sobering up, get a grip on your emotions, stop beggin' for permission to punish a girl that you've thoroughly confused. you present yourself as being active in My chosen lifestyle for twelve years, but you come off as a confuzzled poseur that finds it fairly easy to parrot the word de jour, but unable to cope with a girl in-person.
  Is there something in the air that makes that citys populace make pretensions to grandness? I once knew a motorcyclist from there that made claims about his and his club brothers viciousness, brutality and other such manly-man nonsense far and wide. I discovered thru another Biker that the badass club hired out their enforcing to a smaller club.
  I met several gals from there that claimed to be primo painsluts, few limits, blah, blah, blah. I wasn't overly surprised when they all reconsidered their choice of not incorporating a safeword in the sessions.
  The "mobsters" that, I met turned out to be greek-freaks, wanted to pay Me to beat their asses and buttfuck them. Being straight, I replied in the negative after, I was able to stop gaggin' from the litany of boydawg perversion that they wanted to be made done.
  Even a local trucker that was posing as being able to back a trailer ruined My black reefer unit when a door that he hadn't secured flopped open and tore into the trailers skin.
    One thing that, I will agree with is that Philadelphia has some righteous Philly Cheese/Steak sandwiches, but, I found some that were just as good at the All Harley Drags at ATCO Raceway, and the small cafe at the truckstop in New Jersey. Seems that there's a joint in Georgia, another in Tucson that have them as well, but there wasn't a lot of pompous claims made at them. lol
Gentry

quote:

ORIGINAL: masterhyyde

My slave has committed a very defiant act and I am at a loss for what type of punishment to use to help remedy the situation.  She against my will and without my permission has slept with another man.  And I am somewhat out of ideas.  Any ideas/advice would be appreciated.



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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 1:05:58 AM   
masterhyyde


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You are correct about laying off the sauce.  And I have done so.

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ORIGINAL: leatherorlace

Imagine that?! Wrong masterhyde or masterhyyde, the latter doesn't compute on this site, but the first does and that's where, I got My errant info'. Still, I'm of the opinion that you need to leave the sauce for the duck and not be shitfaced if you're going to interact with another human unless you enjoy the embarressment usually felt just under the radar of the next days hangover, that embarressment that tells you that you made an ass of your self again, and you're wondering who the guy is that's snuggled up to your booty and pokin' at it as if he felt welcome.
Gentry

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 1:13:21 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: masterhyyde

My slave has committed a very defiant act and I am at a loss for what type of punishment to use to help remedy the situation.  She against my will and without my permission has slept with another man.  And I am somewhat out of ideas.  Any ideas/advice would be appreciated.


With all due respect there are many voices in the midst, but the two that matter most are yours and hers. I would gather that the event that led to this unfortunate situation was the catalyst, but there were probably other things taking place or that occurred in the past that have contributed. If you sincerely desire to rebuild with this woman it will require you both to face your shortcomings and fears head on. Without flowery words or fancy jargon, you both must admit you messed up and have not only brought pain to one another, but more importantly upon yourself.

Sometimes to move forward we must return to from whence we came. I will never say that something cannot be salvaged if the parties involved are committed to doing so. Before you can make this determination you must be able to look squarely within her eyes and ask if she is worth every moment of discomfort and frustration that it will take to bring things back in order. It is my sincerest wish that you both find peace, closure, and the happiness you seek in your relations. Whether that unites you as one, or causes you to travel that path with another.

porcelaine

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 1:13:51 AM   
masterhyyde


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quote:

ORIGINAL: slaveintheruff

hello.....she felt as tho,and you say she is a slave...hmmmmmmmmmm.....until she is released she has no right to even think about or for herself...tho i have found that most here confuse slave with submissive


No disrespect but this is the Ask a Master thread, and judging by your id you are not a master.  And no lifestyle is flawless and runs perfectly.  We do not live in Eutopia and we both fucked this up.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 2:00:31 AM   
FelinePersuasion


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while it is titled ask a master, there's no rule that any one else can't reply.


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ORIGINAL: masterhyyde

No disrespect but this is the Ask a Master thread, and judging by your id you are not a master.  And no lifestyle is flawless and runs perfectly.  We do not live in Eutopia and we both fucked this up.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 2:16:42 AM   
masterhyyde


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touche'
so i guess the title is just a good idea instead of what is really happening?

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 2:18:55 AM   
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Yup. It's just there to look originizational.  There's no rule about being a Master to post:)

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 2:30:03 AM   
masterhyyde


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ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion

Yup. It's just there to look originizational.  There's no rule about being a Master to post:)


well im a new dude learning about message boards....lmfao.  i usually lurk and dont post.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 2:34:40 AM   
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I really don't know why they have Ask master Ask Mistress as Slave as switch, Since like I said every one talks on all the boards and stuff and the could just be unified.

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 2:52:00 AM   
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Nothing will change if alcohol dominates the relationship and/or your behavior.  It seems that there is a serious lack of communication here also, many assumptions being made.  My suggestion would be to eliminate alcohol if there seems to be a problem controlling your behavior through over-indulgence.  Get help learning to communicate clearly and convey your expectations, what you will tolerate and what you wont, including their consequences, instead of leaving the door to assumption open for interpretation.

Both of you seem to have a long road ahead of you.  Im not saying it cant be done but making this work will require a serious committment one both parts.  I'd seriously suggest getting help first, if you are having an alcohol problem.

Best of luck to both of you,
LBO

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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 3:38:17 AM   
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OK you are asking for peoples opinion on this, so opinion you get.

I don't care if it was a one-off but if you can't handle the drink, stay the hell AWAY from it. If you can't control yourself then you have no place trying to control someone else.

She may think she has reasons for her actions, but they are not excusses. She felt hurt, she hurt you back... where was the trust?

Your relationship is on a knife edge. Back at stage one and BOTH of you need to start from that point. You both need to re-evaluate yourselves as well as the relationship. From what happened IF you both wish to continue you will have to find some way to get over the breach of trust and begin to build it all over again.

You are in no possition to punish her, you are as much at fault as she is. This, if it is to be gotten over needs work and communication. It won't be solved by playing with a cane!


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RE: Punishment ideas - 8/19/2006 3:43:35 AM   
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quote:

ORIGINAL: FelinePersuasion
I really don't know why they have Ask master Ask Mistress as Slave as switch, Since like I said every one talks on all the boards and stuff and the could just be unified.


Not it should not. Yes everyone posts everywhere, however if a question is posted here on the Ask a Master board then it is obviously geared primaraly toward soliciting answers from Masters. Other answers are simply an add on.

When I answer a question here I am often blunter, more direct, the kid gloves are off... I am being asked directly.

When I choose to 'offer' a diffrent perspective on the Mistress, sub or switch boards I am a little more reserved as I am not being asked directly, I am mearly providing additional input that I think MAY prove helpful.


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