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LadyJulieAnn -> RE: "the Secret Lives of Women" (8/26/2006 10:53:25 AM)
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ORIGINAL: BBWDomme1
I watched this last evening and had mixed feelings. Although its not my thing, the "meat girl" was cute as a bug on a rug. The Pony Mistress segment was very interesting and I must say that the costuming on her pony was top notch. I could have done without the focus on her previous home life. Although I understood it, it probably casts a pall on the segment for the mainstream community.
The part that really gave me mixed feelings was the segment of the slave. On one hand, they did a decent job of explaining the concept of slave and master with a good focus on consent. What I just couldn't get though were the impressions I was left with regarding her current home life.
Hmmmmm,,,how to phrase it? I really don't mean to judge.....but.....
I can totally understand the zeal in which the slave has embraced her somewhat new lifestyle and can respect that her husband supports her. To me, it just seemed that she was constantly throwing it up in the faces of her family members when they didn't appear to be mature enough to really understand. It's one thing to be committed to the "its my life, its not a sin, its consentual and it's no ones business but my own." But its another thing to wear clothing that highlights bruising when she knows her family members may bring visitors to the home who will automatically think that her husband is abusing her. I just don't think its fair to put an "unmentionable" in the position of trying to explain to friends why mom looks like she's been beaten, especially when the logical conclusion will be that her dad did it. Sure, the slave would say, "explain the truth to your friends," but I think that would be completely insensitive position for a mother to put her family member in.
I noticed that when the unmentionable was crying about the fact that her mother had changed and did not interact with her as she had previously, the slave just walked away with a shrug. Although I don't have any unmentionables, I just found that really, really sad. And I think it sends a warped message to the mainstream community. It's almost like, "I've found my thing, its all about me and to hell with the needs of my family."
Okay, I'm done with my rambling. I really try not to judge others. I hope I have not offended anyone, particularly the slave or her master (cuz she said she found him on the net, maybe this forum)...
Thanks for listening....................be well
I have to admit I had similar feelings about the woman who was a slave. I also had a similar reaction when the pony mistress talked about how she wasn't sure how she would explain her lifestyle to her children when they were older. I just don't find it necessary to tell children everything. I wouldn't ever want my family (my parents and brother) to find out what I like to do, and I am fully able to enjoy life without them knowing. I know it might be different and more difficult with children, but I still think it would be possible to live life without making them aware.
Be well,
Julie
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