slavespirit41 -> Long distance relationships (4/18/2004 10:37:38 AM)
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This is a topic that i have read much on, and of course as with everything everyone has an opinion. i have attempted 3 long distance relationships (3 to 5 hour drive time) and all failed. i found myself very deflated and somewhat depressed on the interim of visits. A few days after leaving i would hit a major low, and then the questions would begin to hit me about if this was good for me, if this relationship was going anywhere, and so on and so on. i cared deeply for all three of these Dominants, and the last one i had known for 3 years prior to starting a D/s relationship. There were a lot of factors other than long distance that hurt our relationship but the biggest blow was the long distance situation. i realize that some people do make it work, but that is only if one or the other can relocate which i cannot do at this time. i have had several emails telling me how i am limiting myself, and that maybe it just wasn't the right person, blah blah blah, but i know for me that my heart cannot take the distance factor. Would love to hear other thoughts on the subject. Thank you for listening. spirit
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