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foxglove716 -> instadom party sampler! (8/23/2006 5:12:15 AM)
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My birthday is in a few days, and as a present to me, my otherwise vanilla boyfriend has agreed to join the darkside for one night. He will do any kinky things to me that I want, as long as it's not too extreme. Iv'e told him about most of my pervalicious fantasies, he isn't shocked or disgusted, just doesn't get it, I think. He gives me the look. You know what look I mean. That lost look, like when you quote a movie to someone who has never seen the film. So I was thinking of trying out a little bit of everything from all bdsm areas. Like a little sampler of watered down kink. I think I will start out with my obligatory birthday spankings. As you probably have guessed, I am also trying to make this his gateway to kink, and hopefully he will find something he likes. He is pleasanatly dominating in our relationship, so I am still scratching my head as to why that doesnt transcend into the bedroom. But of course I know that I can't force a puzzle piece where it doesn't fit, but it cant hurt to try. Do you have any ideas for simple bdsm mixed with vanilla techniques for the extreme novice?
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