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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/10/2007 7:49:27 AM

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I have to admit that I read the first 2 pages and then skipped to the last page because of time constraints. I am curious about the other side of the coin. As a Mistress I get alot of submissives/slave that tell me one of their requirements to serve is that they expeect to be kept nude at all times. I usually respond by saying that I believe making a demand like that is topping from the bottom. (We're practically a nudist household - the Master and I both prefer to walk around nude because its more comfortable esp in the summer time) But its the principle of it, if I want my slave to be nude shouldn't that be my perogative? If I want them to wear clothing - that should be my perogative as well.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/10/2007 8:00:35 AM

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I agree also that the novelty wears off after a while. How long that while is depends on the individuals of course. It lasted quite a while in our house but then spicing things up with sexy clothes or accessories is even more fun.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/10/2007 8:03:05 AM

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Lady Scarlet... it should and is your prerogative!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/10/2007 5:10:01 PM

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Nudists have been dealing with these questions for years.

For mailmen, you keep a robe near the front door.

Trickier issues are windows - can you been seen out of them? And how do you protect your furniture? Do you just cover everything in towels?

Depending on where you live, temperature can also be tricky. I tend to like it a little cool most of the time, or a little cool in winter and a little warm in summer. In winter, a naked sub would likely be rather cold in my house - or I would be rather warm.

Personally, I like clothes. Sometimes. :).

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 8/10/2007 5:33:15 PM

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When my Dom comes over he has me nude all the time, and when we order pizza or whatever, he gets it while i stay "hidden" in either my bedroom or in the bathroom.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 10:14:36 AM

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pup believes that not only is it reasonable but required to be in natural pup form while in house. being exposed to SIR allows SIR to inspect pup for any vet scenes in the house as HE see fit. also it prevents pup from playing with his knot with not having permission. also if SIR wishes it the pup can be played with while wearing his tail which requires for pup to be naked. it's natural for pup to be naked anyhow, but SIR also requires it at the same time so it's second nature for the pet to be as such. pup only dresses for outside, for the work place, visitors out side of the life style and family. *wag wag wag*

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ORIGINAL: SusanofO

Is this a reasonable request? I've read that some Dominants and Masters want their submissives or slaves to be nude at home all the time. They are simply not allowed to wear clothes in the home. I am wondering how this actually works for them in a practical sense.

I am not ashamed of nudity, but - what if a pizza delivery man or a mail person, or a friend or relative comes to the door who either 1) Is not aware of their bdsm life-style or 2) Doesn't necessarily want to see them nude? What then?

I see this listed as a "requirement" for potential submissives and slaves in some Dominant profiles, and am wondering if they actually do live this way, or are mostly just fantasizing and hoping someone will agree to it someday.

What say you?

Thanks for any replies.

- Susan

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 11:53:53 AM

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This is definitely something that depends on your home! Here in the UK, I'd guess the majority of homes are close enough together that neighbours and passers by can see in, at least to some parts of some rooms. And some of those neighbours etc will be children and therefore not capable of consent. So - If your home is warm enough year round, and you live far enough from your neighbours not to be overlooked, and have yards/gardens that are private, go for it. Otherwise, I think it's not going to be a full time permanent thing.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 12:04:07 PM

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My boyfriend wants me to be naked when I'm at home. We keep it warm enough that it's comfortable to do that. If someone is coming over I throw on a dress. If we're running errands and stopping at home to drop things off to grab a quick bite before heading back out again, I don't strip for those 10 minutes or however long.

It's more when I come home at the end of the day, or on the weekends when we're lounging around at home. Works fine. It doesn't take any time at all to slip on a dress as I walk to the door if a delivery person is there.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 12:07:57 PM

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It is perfectly reasonable. Exceptions can be made depending upon circumstances, but if the Dom has laid it out as such then it is done. As has been mentioned already, a robe near the front door and using an apron when cooking or cleaning. I think it goes without saying that the nudity is strictly confined to the house and not beyond it where partial nudity can come into play, but that's a whole different subject.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 12:27:31 PM

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I agree also that the novelty wears off after a while. How long that while is depends on the individuals of course. It lasted quite a while in our house but then spicing things up with sexy clothes or accessories is even more fun.

I lived in a nudist camp for about 6 months. After the first visit, prior to living there, the novelty wore off. Something to consider, although it may be useful in humiliation for some. But again, if constant, even that will lose its' novelty and power.
For another poster, yes, towels or small throws for the furniture are quite useful.
I normally run around nude in the summer, and keep a dress handy to throw on for when the doorbell rings. Of course this is just something light and barely covers me, so i don't usually end up outside. SD winters are just too cold, if i don't want a thousand a month heating bill, or my headlights shining all the time. ;;-))

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 2:08:50 PM

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I have always fantasized about this. Despite all of My professional experience, I have never had a 24/7 slave that was also a live in. However, I often fantasize of having live in slaves that are required to wear only a collar, with matching wrist and ankle cuffs. I imagine having them eagerly waiting on their knees for My arrival just behind the front door.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 2:59:16 PM

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i am 24/7 to TheEngineer. he says "be nude!" he is generally nude around the house himself. i, on the other hand, am cold. i "won" the argument by pressing my cold self against his warm body. he squealed and allowed that a sick slave is no fun, go get some clothes on.

sleeping, though, is to be done in the nude unless there is that once a month girly reason to have panties on. the cover issues we solved by me having an extra comforter on my side of the bed and him not putting covers on at all. happiness all around.

kitten

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 3:18:22 PM

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Just like anything in life..If it's something you want you will work it out so you can have it.

Unreasonable? Only by someone Else's standards..not mine. I make the rules. So things like fair and unreasonable are left up to me and me alone.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 3:23:06 PM

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This is an old thread and it's kind of weird to bring it up a year later. Don't you think?

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 3:34:56 PM

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ORIGINAL: xGoddessx

I haven't ever heard that you could be in legal trouble for walking around nude in the privacy of your own home. I am sure if you stood right against a window and begged to be looked at, it might be a different story.

I am pretty sure that nudity in your own home is perfectly legal, even in front of open windows, or even open doors. On the other hand, laws governing this sort of thing vary from state to state (and country to country), so you might want to check with some more local resource on this.

In general, I think that any D/s relationship needs to be "sane" and "reasonable". Sure, it might make a nice fantasy to keep a sub nude all the time, but there are certain practical limitations. Insisting that a sub sleep in the nude is about as close as I get to any full time nudity requests. I can, however, see "I want you naked when I come home from work" or "you will be naked all weekend" or even "I don't want you to wear any clothes today" ... but all the time just seems impractical.

Ultimately, however, I'd have to say that if you can make it work for you, then go right ahead and do it!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 5:26:53 PM

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Forced nudity is OK, again if you provide for the welfare of your slave AND the welfare of the public. A robe to answer the door in, that hangs on a hook near the door is sufficient. When guests come over who do not want your naked slave serving them appetizers, a plain, white, pull over gown is fine. Cuffs make very attractive accessories.

Devalifewear.com has some really excellent clothing (much of it the product of USA cottage industry) for this purpose.

As for the health... prepare to pay MUCH higher heating bills and to keep your home uncomfortably warm in the summer!

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/28/2008 7:00:41 PM

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Lots of folks choose to be unclothed at home for any number of reasons.
If I had a Master who wished it, I'd oblige. I'd ask to be allowed to wear a bra or something supportive as it gets painful after awhile (And, I think good support keeps things inbetter shape longer) but otherwise, no qualms.
Just the other day, someone knocked on the door while I was in a towel. I shouted "Hold on!"and tossed on a dress. Either they wait or they don't. With few exceptions who always have an open invite, I look dimly on uninvited folks coming to the door and consider my answering it optional anyway.
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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/29/2008 7:51:18 AM

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I have a simple responce to this. All slaves collared to Bruin Cottage, even if they are personals to me, will start off nakid day and night unless they are in public view or vanilla (inc family) guests are present UNTILL they (slaves not guests or family ~ dread the thouyght!) earn the right to wear cloths. The types of clothing they will wear (shopping, serving in the home at both low and high protocol including full livery, white stockings, buckled shoes and powdered wigs for males) is set out in The Bruin Cottage Manifesto regarding modes of dress. Having said that, since I have a preference for the peasant tops which han be worn to expose breasts and a loose dress and a standing rule than underwear is forbidded unless for hygene or medical reasons so that a slaves breasts and genatalia are easily accessible for myself or any other/s I may grant specific intimate privalages, I am more likely to have a personal girl serving me wearing nothing but a shirik.

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/29/2008 8:44:46 AM

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As much as I enjoy someone being naked at home, I cannot have them that way literally "all the time".

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RE: Nude at home all the time - a reasonable demand? - 10/29/2008 8:58:56 AM

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I wander around my house naked most of the time, unless I'm cold, in which case I still try to stay as unclothed as possible. When I'm over at Sir's, I'm generally not clothed either, at his discretion. Generally, I've noticed that as soon as I get over there, I'm suddenly not wearing any clothes.

And of course, we sleep naked. I can't stand having anything but covers around when I'm sleeping, and Sir is certainly a tall mobile furnace o' warmth!

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