mp072004
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I don't think it's unreasonable to be nude much of the time while at home. I don't generally run around naked or in just underpants, but my partner does so most of the time in the summer. This isn't due to an agreement or request--he likely wears few to no clothes while I'm clothed because if the house is seventy-five degrees, I'm comfortable moving around in jeans and a sweatshirt and he becomes overly warm if he's active and in a t-shirt. I imagine if he noticed real obstacles to running around naked he would stop doing it. To Susan's first question, you put on a bathrobe to answer the door. If you're cold, (and if discomfort isn't the goal!) you turn the heat up or put clothes on, I suppose. I think you're allowed to be naked with nonchalance in your own house if you like, and I doubt any of your neighbors would bring the law against you. I imagine most people would assume that their naked neighbor was in the midst of dressing or undressing. About the nuisance of dressing to go out, I don't generally wear the same clothes at home and in private as I do when entertaining guests or in public, and I would guess I am not unique in this. I would think that going from naked to dressed to go out would be easier than going from comfy house clothes to dressed to go out, because one wouldn't need to undress and then dress if one were already naked. However, while I don't see a lot of practical problems, I do see problems with full-time nudity continuing to be sexy. Like xGoddessx said, it's just a part of life, and you just adjust to it. Naked people get used to being naked, and clothed people get used to being around naked people. If nudity is commonplace, it ceases to be a cue for sexiness. Therapists who work with couples in low-sex marriages routinely tell people to reserve certain things, like nudity while sleeping, bathing together, and interacting while dressed in pretty underthings, so that they're special and easily identifiable as sexual cues. Monica
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