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juliaoceania -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:20:16 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Beachaven

Do people really fake there deaths on this site??? Why? They have to know its rediculous. What if someone really mourns them?


I used to be a regular in a certain political chatroom and I have seen people fake deaths online.... I wouldn't know about this site though.. no one has faked their death to escape me personally...smiles




Beachaven -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:20:51 PM)

No dishonesty.. everyone in my life knew everyhting els that was going on with me. I didnt think that Dom was the Master for me... so we did'nt pursue a realationship.




MASTERRocker -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:23:51 PM)

Well; to leave for another implies dishonesty and disloyality in a relationship.....
If it is one of abuse or not getting the attention - then that is different = still difficult but one that can possibly be remedied.
There are many who 'jump' from one Dom to another..... in fact that would make a great question sometime......- "How many Doms have you had in 5 years??"




DiurnalVampire -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:24:57 PM)

Ive known people to have to excuse themselves for long periods of time becasue of a fake disaster in teh family esewhere... as an escape route. I had a prospect that disapeared for almost 2 months becsaue his mother supposedly died. I was all ready to forgive him for the absance when he came back and explained it, except while he was talking to me on the phone, his poor departed mother came in and yeled at him something about having to clean the dishes.  If you are going to lie, make sure you dont get caught for pity sake.

DV




Beachaven -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:25:54 PM)

I have had two in the last five years. The Dom and I were not in a relationship.. we were still just getting to know eachother.




juliaoceania -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:27:15 PM)

I heard this excuse....

My future son inlaw was hit by a car

My friends fiance died of cancer

My house was almost auctioned off on the door of the courthouse....

I began to think he was full of shit, but it turned out he was telling the truth... so you never know.




Beachaven -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:32:58 PM)

Thank you to everyone who gave me advice.. useful or not, it helped. Thank you, Andy




singmenohymns -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:36:42 PM)

My Trainer and i had discussed everything before we ever began. It was a Trainer/sub rela.and my first experience in this lifestyle. we were both free to play with others.
I am still new so what i don't understand, is why you would need a Trainer if you've already had experience in this lifestyle?
The choice is ultimately yours




Beachaven -> RE: How do you turn a master down or leave your current dom for another one? (10/1/2006 5:39:47 PM)

I enjoy the training part... although I have not had much. I am still what I call new to this life style.




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