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Meeting Your First Master - 1/2/2005 5:07:38 PM

terah

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I have a lot of soul searching so I am asking for insight on this subject.

When was the first time you knew you were his or hers.
Although some people believe that having experienced a dominant in their lives was a friend lover, teacher/mentor, spouse. When did you awaken into the alternative conscience reality.

In the best case scenerio:It is the second you feel your mind freed, your body floating and the world banished from any reasoning thought. The caress of his or her voice soothing your aching body.

In the worse case scenerio: It is when you meet and find yourself lost and guessing , unable to understand why looking for that rope to either hang onto for life or die just trying. It is cold, harsh, uncaring, scary. You feel used, discarded and betrayed by your desire and needs.

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RE: Meeting Your First Master - 1/2/2005 6:06:02 PM

cynnacent1

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i knew i was His during our first meeting. Yeah, yeah... i know. Too fast for most. And it happened just that way ... at first sight. When after a very long and serious, yet warm conversation He looked into my eyes and asked to kiss me and then warned me that if i said yes, it would be the last time He'd feel the need to ask my permission. i knew i was His as soon as the word 'yes' left my lips.

It may seem odd or corney to some. There was alot more to it. Mere words are not always capable of explaining the "whens hows and whys". Yet, as i look back, it was in that one moment that i simply knew. The most wonderful part of it all is that i have fallen in love with Him over and over again ... since, and with more reasons than i can account for.

It had nothing to do with abuse, feeling used, lost, guessing or confusion. It was no where near to being cold, harsh uncaring or scary. It most definitely had something to do with being patient enough & knowing what type of man i need as a Dom & then finding the right Master for me. It had alot to do with knowing what i need and want, as well as what i don't need or want and will not tolerate. It had everything to do with trust, respect, good communication and of course an amazing level of compatability.

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RE: Meeting Your First Master - 1/2/2005 7:48:59 PM

bottominwa

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15 years ago this girl was 16...and she walked into a classroom at lunch time to retreive a lost bookbag and Master was there with mutual friends, He was introduced as "John" and for absolutely no reason what so ever she said "Is it Johnathan?" and He said, "yes and you should call me that". And just like that a natural denuflection occurred that has now lasted 15 years, and a marriage of 10 and two beautifully obnoxious little dominants later...lol

"Don't tell me Fate doesn't exist, for i saw her once, and she smiled on me."

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RE: Meeting Your First Master - 1/3/2005 9:25:25 AM

ResTrainHer2me

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From the otherside,,,, I was discovered by her,,,, She was the one with the awareness for the lifestyle and her needs within it,,,, We met,,,, and she realized I was going to be the one even if she had to make me into that one,,, which she did with initial subtle suggestion followed by saying "here buddy.... this is what I am into,,,, and I believe in my soul that you are the one capable of taking me there, so will you please",,,, her exact words,,, and I began to grow into what was the initial character trait I already possessed and the trait she instinctively recognized.... So I was freed to be the Dom I need to be by a sub who needed to be.... But warning,,, This DID turn out to be a truly exciting, trusting, honorable 24/7 TPE relationship for 11 mutually delicious years... But it was one based off of the 'need',,, and when needs grow they may need to be set free in order to continue their growth... & in our case we mutually aggreed that we needed to set each other free to get where we needed to be... As they say, "If you love them set them free"....

I'm just out there looking for a sub/slave wanting to repeat of the above stated sensibilities & to share with me my continued growth in this realm....

Jeffrey

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RE: Meeting Your First Master - 1/3/2005 9:39:52 PM

LaMspeach

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I know the first time we chatted on line that he was different. He made me feel things I have never felt before. He made me dig deeper then anyone has ever been able to. He could make me laugh and cry in the same sentence. So we meet real life and I expected firework, what I got was a calm peacefully feeling, like I had came home to the place I belonged. I didn't understand at first, but I do now. Fireworks don't last forever but the feeling of being where you are suppose to be does.

Has anyone else ever had that peaceful feeling of being where you were suppose to be when first meeting?

Footnote: I have since experienced many feeling of fire works and all other kinds of feelings but it always the feeling that I am where I belong that keeps me where I am.

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