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Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 8:56:01 PM

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Has anyone noticed as the new year, 2005 rolled in that your e-mail, voice mail, instant messages were flooded by so many people (Doms in my case) that you haven't spoken to or seen in a very long time? Does the new year bring optimism for new relationships? Are many resolutions to find the One? or are Doms so tired of seeing nilla santa claus sweaters and ready to see some leather or pvc gear? Inquiring minds want to know.

Would love to know if you have experienced this and your thoughts on it.

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 8:59:45 PM

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No, not me.

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 9:00:35 PM

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I am speaking to about the same amount of people I've spoken to before;)

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 9:18:04 PM

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Teased whispers and shade Diva.... Just curious, would like to know if you are involved in a relationship...Could it possibly be just an influx of mail and messages to the available? Hmmmmm, this mystery has me puzzled......anyone want to play clue me in?

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 9:27:26 PM

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I am but I get that constant influx of contact daily anyway.

Then again I am somewhat open to developing a relationship with a submissive, I'm just not actively seeking.

I get something like a couple hundred emails daily for a variety of reasons, and thats just on my aol account. That's not counting all the emails on my nilla accounts, my business emails, or all my admin emails for all my sites, or the emails that are generated for all the sites I co-mod for.

So I'm less likely to see a sudden upheaval in any area, I'm a member of some mailing lists that when they are active can generate over 300 emails in a day.

Makes such things less likely to notice I guess, now that I think about it, lol.

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 9:30:36 PM

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Actually, to the contrary, I have found myself sending messages to people on my favorates list. I mean, what good is it to think enough of someone to put them on your favorates list--then not ever try to communicate with them, even if it is only to say hi. You seem to be lucky! Be appreciative of those Dommes who think enough of you to send you a message! I am thinking like a slave more these days, because of the willingness of a few to guide me in the right direction. i know i am when one comes in!

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Has anyone noticed as the new year, 2005 rolled in that your e-mail, voice mail, instant messages were flooded by so many people (Doms in my case) that you haven't spoken to or seen in a very long time? Does the new year bring optimism for new relationships? Are many resolutions to find the One? or are Doms so tired of seeing nilla santa claus sweaters and ready to see some leather or pvc gear? Inquiring minds want to know.

Would love to know if you have experienced this and your thoughts on it.

Respectfully,
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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 9:35:26 PM

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I think it is because they all got new PC's for Christmas

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 9:37:19 PM

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So do I understand you correctly proscatman that you have sent more messages with the new year? If so, was there a particular reason for the beginning of the year instead of last minute in 2004?....

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Btw Shade Diva, with your own postal service and email center you wouldnt have noticed (LOL)...are you on one of those 1 cent an email programs? just teasing..I needed that smile....thinking all the lost emails to Santa was directed to you.

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 10:05:05 PM

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Ive noticed nothing different......EXCEPT one thing.
Ive had two females write Me which is VERY unusuall
but a welcomed change. Am I getting fluffy??Ive never
attracted females befor........

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 10:09:28 PM

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Ahhhh MistressDread, so you have had unusual traffic....New Year Optimism, Do you suppose? Looking to you for them to be a better Submissive? Perhaps a new year's resolution.....

The mystery continues......

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 10:15:00 PM

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Damn Im feeling left out now

I didnt get any influx of messages let alone from anybody new - ah well thems the breaks I guess - should I be worried lol

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 10:25:58 PM

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Btw Shade Diva, with your own postal service and email center you wouldnt have noticed (LOL)...are you on one of those 1 cent an email programs? just teasing..I needed that smile....thinking all the lost emails to Santa was directed to you.

LOL!

Sometimes it feels like it.

*chortle*

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RE: Look What the New Year Brought In.... - 1/2/2005 10:41:34 PM

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I dont get much mail, must be my age and the fact that i am taken. But i did get a very nice pic from a regular here.

I think over the holidays more people were off work and maybe had more time to write. I think the forums have been busier than normal too.

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