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Joined: 1/31/2004 From: Tidewater, VA Status: offline
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Midear Nikita- 'Playing' refers to actually doing this stuff (bdsm), either for real or in the machine. I actually tend to use 'working' instead, and you may also see it refered to as 'sceneing', 'doing a scene' or sessioning, etc. I might ask a prospect about their past experiance with this stuff, But probaly not untill I consider them a prospect- I am more interested in who they are, and what it is that they are looking for. That's got more to do with what I am looking for then where they have been. Someone who tries to promote thier notion of correct discourse, or protocol, before there is some agreement of an interaction, is likely not someone who actually does this stuff much. For me, online 'Sir-ing' me excessivly, Using some bizarre mangled grammar, or calling me by a title isn't showing much respect- showing up and doing it is... Stay warm, Lawrence
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