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RE: A Question - 9/4/2006 7:43:55 PM

theRose4U

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ORIGINAL: mstrjx

Let's take this as a non-M/s question. I don't know (nor need to) about your finances, but I might expect that for you to keep going to best handle the responsibilities is sound advice. He is not working, so his (if he has) income is diminished. He is looking at you to cover the bills as you can, and handle the day-to-day responsibilities (the home and the wee ones). He is, in essence, asking you to be the 'strong one' until he can reassume those responsibilities. This might be unfamiliar territory for you.

I see this as sound advice, coming from him. Yes, of course I understand you wish to be at the hospital. Are there not evening hours?

In short, I think his wishes are still best.

Now, how does any of this change since you 'are' in an M/s dynamic?

Not at all. It's just a more direct instruction that he expects you to follow.

(But even not as an order I still think his wishes are best.)

Jeff

Without more information I'm going to go with this. Likelyhood is that you are needed to help pay the bills. Also while he is in the hospital he is taken care of, when he gets home is when you will need that (hopefully paid) time to care for him. Going in the evenings is a way to care for him and also look after your home.

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RE: A Question - 9/4/2006 8:10:52 PM

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i would never suggest to know what is best for anyone else in their relationship. i wouldn't try to guess and offer advice because i understand that only those in any relationship can (should) know what is best for them.

Regarding my own relationship:
i can relate very well to the topic of discussion as my Owner has serious health issues (which far too often have resulted in His being hospitalized for a time)... and at all times, whether in sickness or in times of good (better) health, i honor Him by simply obeying. When His physical health is compromised enough to land Him in the hospital, the last thing He needs is any additional stress on His plate due to His slave having suddenly decided to disobey because she has suddenly decided that she now knows better than Him. i don't go there.
i do my very best to remain obedient at all times to whatever is expected of me & i try even that much more when He is hospitalized, because it could be very easy to forget my place when i am worried about Him.. A huge part of that means remembering that even while i am worried for Him, it is His place and not mine to decide where 'my place is'. The status of His health doesn't change a thing. He's the Master and i obey Him, period.... because that is what He needs most from me especially when He is ill, and hospitalized.
.....YMMV.

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RE: A Question - 9/5/2006 11:05:30 AM

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I’m happy to read that you guys reached to a compromise. And I think it was cool to sneak him food… lol

But I have a question for everyone…. Who the hell are the unmentionables? LOL

Master96,

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RE: A Question - 9/5/2006 12:24:36 PM

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if you have made a comitment to him, family always comes first, weigh that against losing you job and perhaps your only income

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RE: A Question - 9/6/2006 4:07:18 PM

deltadawn

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Woo Hoo The Man is HOME.

Thank you once again everyone. Seems I will not have much time here in the next few weeks, somebody gets to have allllllllll my attention.

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RE: A Question - 9/6/2006 4:09:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: Master96

I’m happy to read that you guys reached to a compromise. And I think it was cool to sneak him food… lol

But I have a question for everyone…. Who the hell are the unmentionables? LOL

Master96,