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WhippingPostNY -> RE: D/s: innate or learned? (9/3/2006 10:21:43 AM)

Yes, but in neither case was it abuse until i found out that society had a label for it, them, and Me.

I think it is one of the thousands of little experiences and thoughts and feelings that have made me into the person I am today. 

Whatever the cause, my very soul whispers it's truth to me.

WP 





Lordandmaster -> RE: D/s: innate or learned? (9/3/2006 10:22:41 AM)

No and no.

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ORIGINAL: Bedlam2Night

That said, my question is:  do you have any sexual abuse in your history and do you think that may be a contributing reason as to why you are involved in D/s now as an adult?




rick19 -> RE: D/s: innate or learned? (9/3/2006 6:08:23 PM)

I was never abused growing up, I led a pretty much normal and mundane life. Don't know why I'm into kink, don't care, its a part of who I am I guess




MysticFireTopaz -> RE: D/s: innate or learned? (9/4/2006 11:00:20 AM)

The only sexual abuse I experienced in My childhood was a one-time encounter at a public beach from a total stranger at age 9.   Yes, it was traumatic at the time, but I got over it. 
 
My father, while very verbally and emotionally abusive, never abused Me sexually, nor did any other family member.    
 
So I would have to say that the small amount of sexual abuse in My childhood has no bearing at all in My involvement in BDSM.
 
Lady Topaz




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