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behindmirrors -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 5:56:39 PM)
I drive at night because my car has both it's headlights! Sometimes, though, he drives my car and I'm passenger, but it's always my car at night, and mine is much more reliable. For shorter or daytime trips, he drives his car- I'm not so great at driving a stick shift yet, but he's been teaching me. For us it never really matters who drives- it is more of a matter of who does or does not want to at the time. I guess it's one of those parts of the relationship where we're equals, haha. behindmirrors. <edited for idiotic redundancy in the beginning of sentences>

GeekyGirl -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 6:06:08 PM)
My last dominant insisted on always driving. A) because I'm a crummy driver B) because he felt it wasn't "manly" to let your women drive you around.

LaTigresse -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 7:32:25 PM)
Let it be known that I would PREFER a chauffeured limo! Unfortunately my 2003 Prism requires that I drive it[:'(]. I don't EVEN want to think about putting my long legs in the back seat of that thing. I rather enjoy driving my bigass Dodge truck but she likes the gas too much. Sooooooo......

deltadawn -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 7:47:17 PM)
He drives unless he is returning from a business trip and just got off the plane. I do get to pick the music though. dawn

Windygal -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 8:03:13 PM)
I like doing the driving, but I drive at work oftentimes, so then I make him drive. I will drive if I know the way better, but if we are going into the City, its all his job. Windygal

Sunshine119 -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 8:06:14 PM)
We both drive about 30,000 miles/year for our professions. However, when we drive together he always drives as he tells me he would like us both to live. I've had 27 accidents, of which 22 have been my fault, in my life. Can't say I blame him, and while I do like driving, I like getting there in one piece more. He does always open the door for me though. Chivalry is not dead among Doms.

MaggieDoll -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 8:48:53 PM)
I havent been able to get car insurance yet because we dont have a lease (this landlord is so inept!!) but I would be the one driving even though I'm they're little girl because Stephen has seizures so he can't drive and Jenny revoked her own licence because she's such a bad driver... Maggie Property and baby girl of Stephen and Jennifer

Wolfie648 -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 9:16:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Draydenscandide quote: ORIGINAL: LordDarkPleasure its really like driving: who should drive? The sub because he serves or the Dom because he is in control of where they go? yeah, this was ripped from the thread about financial support, but i like the question and would like to hear everyone's opinions on it. Whatever works for the 2 people involved. D (owner of j).

LotusSong -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 9:58:43 PM)
I always allow the males to drive... I can't stand their screaming otherwise :)

Sirandlittle1 -> RE: driving (9/2/2006 10:32:05 PM)
I like to drive Him, i like the chauffeur fantasy. The kidnap fantasy requires him to drive, obviously, so it goes both ways. Usually it comes down to who's car we are in or who knows the district best. We have two very different cars, mines the runaround cheap as chips to run type, his is the old farts car good for comfort, but less economical, and feels like a tank! Im not so keen on driving his. As for the radio, my Dom is slightly deaf, though he denies it adamantly, so im not allowed it on. Bugger.

SusanofO -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 2:44:22 AM)
Whatever the Dominant wants. - Susan

ExSteelAgain -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 5:06:06 AM)
I drive, but I don't open doors. Doing that is an anachronism not suited for the age of gasoline driven vehciles, in my opinion.

porcelaine -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 6:28:03 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Draydenscandide yeah, this was ripped from the thread about financial support, but i like the question and would like to hear everyone's opinions on it. Definitely him unless we employ someone for hire. I can't drive and prefer to be driven instead. porcelaine

MaleModel -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 6:56:37 PM)
Ms. Lauren prefers for me to drive as I can then do the work. It also frees her to take out any part of me that she wants to play with, or put her hands wherever she wants. If we're a half-hour from home, that gives her time to torture me however she wants. In general, Ms. Lauren likes for me to play the role of big strong man with little woman in tow, while she grins knowing that she is in control. MM

Steelriven -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 7:02:17 PM)
I love to drive. However, I didn't get my drivers liecense until about eight months ago. Why? Where I was living before I could take a bus anywhere for cheap. It took me so long to pass the driver's test, and to get over my fears of driving. (My sister, best friend, and father were all in horrible accidents.) It seems more like something I have conquered than simply driving. I still get skitish when driving some place new, but I feel all the much more proud of myself when I get there. It's a simple thing to most people, but to me it means a hell of alot.

WhippingPostNY -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 7:37:27 PM)
Whoever the Dom/me decides is best suited to drive at that moment.

outlier -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 9:59:41 PM)
I usually drive because I am a born and bred serious Southern California car nut. Everything from small motorcycles to serious classic show cars. When I was in college I even had a school bus drivers license, those 40 plus passenger crown coaches. But the relationship has to run deeper than "who drives". If I ride my bike to a lady's place and we go somewhere then I don't feel less in control if she drives us in her car. I understand that there are psychological metaphors here but my sense of self does not require that I always drive. When it's important to me I do. Also, I can attest to the fact that there are some things that are much more comfortable when you have the extra legroom available in the rear of a long wheelbase coachbuilt car. Fond memories. Outlier

theRose4U -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 11:16:53 PM)
quote: I know how the Iowa State Patrol is on holiday weekends...... You have to love a road side fund raiser. I met a potential boy last night, he earned bonus points when I learned that he'd gone through 3 sobriety check points to get to me then another 2 and a private stop to get home. Good news is that the police department can get the 2 new cars and uniforms they had the bake sale for [sm=ofcourse.gif]

OriginalWench -> RE: driving (9/3/2006 11:22:36 PM)
I usually drive. When we first met, he always drove (his new car, he drove). Then when I moved in (into Da Bronx!), I started learning to deal with the heavy traffic there. (He like to laugh and make fun of me for me calling him at work one day to tell him I'd drive on Pelham Parkway. Now I laugh too, because I was SO proud, and now it's like, whatever.) As his medication has gotten progressively stronger, I've driven more and more. It works well for us, he navigates, I drive, and we like mostly the same music, so the radio/cd player is usually something we both like. Or, if the creatures are with us, it's DVD's on the traveling DVD player. He says I have really bad road rage, I say that the fact that I yell at people from the safety of my vehicle but never do anything dangerous makes it not road rage, but merely venting.

Soquili -> RE: driving (9/4/2006 8:47:50 AM)
Personally I prefer to drive. My little one doesn't enjoy driving, and I really dislike being a passenger so it all works out in the end. ;)

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