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abytchgoddess4u -> RE: Topping someone bigger than you. (9/6/2006 5:05:36 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: mnottertail Do Not use bamboo for striking, the shit breaks wrong and could put some hell of a splinters in your ass. Both of my favorite canes are bamboo. Of course they are dipped and sealed, which makes them stronger. I tend to break anything unsealed.

FangsNfeet -> RE: Topping someone bigger than you. (9/6/2006 9:16:11 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: MistressTexas bamboo cane... Good greif those things hurt! and you dont have to apply it to a particularly delicate bpart of the body either... a couple good swats to the upper back or thigh, possibly abs and I assure you he'll be much less inclined to upset you in the future. Why would anyone want to use bamboo when there is Rattan?

windy135 -> RE: Topping someone bigger than you. (9/6/2006 11:13:45 PM)
I can understand Focus’s confusion in my post. My relationship is not the same as his. I’m experimenting and was just seeking advice on how to critique a plan of action to top the person I am seeing. Why try to top someone who enjoys the power struggle? Because it’s fun! I’m still very new to the scene and I’m just finding my grove.. That’s the reason for the post J Thanks

spankablecyn -> RE: Topping someone bigger than you. (9/7/2006 2:07:12 PM)
I do it all the time. It is called consent which is what this lifestyle is all about. Besides I think 2 steps ahead of them. I am 5'5" 135 pounds. I have never topped a man smaller than myself. It is all in the mind and the wrist action when flogging, cropping, whipping...I am a bossy one, what can I say.

MistressSassy66 -> RE: Topping someone bigger than you. (9/7/2006 2:47:29 PM)
Mace is good,pepper spray works too,but that may be extreme. I think that learning some self defence moves would be a benefit too you. It has helped Me when doing sessions that are of the wrestling sort. The other thing that gets their attention is the TENs but you have to get the pads on him first. Maybe a wand would be effective....

FangsNfeet -> RE: Topping someone bigger than you. (9/7/2006 6:18:47 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: abytchgoddess4u Both of my favorite canes are bamboo. Of course they are dipped and sealed, which makes them stronger. I tend to break anything unsealed. Switch to Graphite Golf shaft and kytspar. You might like it.

MichMasochist -> RE: Topping someone bigger than you. (9/7/2006 6:50:07 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: windy135 I put this question on this board because I want to hear ideas from everyone. I would love to top the guy I'm seeing but he is bigger and stronger than I. It would be easy if he would just let me control him but he enjoys the fight, not including the idea of taking back the power. Its all in fun and play, but does anyone have any ideas on how to top someone they are physically unable in control? Tina here Mitch is six inches taller than me and weighs more. Topping him is easy because he has the mindset of being a submissive. There is no doubt in my mind that he could physically over power me at any moment, but would want to. As for wrestling or taking control I have found it to not be a problem. Any resistance to me is nothing more than him wanting me to take his resistance away, taking power, control and making him obey me. Tina

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