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Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/7/2006 7:13:00 PM

zzzstinky

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Hello all,

Just wondering... I recently as part of my service to a Domme asked (well begged) to have her work my fingers to the bone. It's kind of funny because as much as I enjoy pain, I don't think I really meant that.
However I did want to be worked hard, and "serve" well beyond the norm. I have seen people spend hours on a weekend cleaning and doing yardwork... So now, I am wondering, if I offer to have my fingers worked to the bone, what might that mean to a Domme. Please understand, I am not looking for lists (although that helps)... I just ask genuinely what do you think a normal (vanilla even) days domestic work might be vs. a slave who offers to work extra hard to provide service...

Thanks for any thoughts... :)
robby.

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RE: Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/7/2006 7:22:54 PM

mstrjx

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robby, I'm not a Domme, but I'd like a crack at this.

Actually, your mentioning in the title and in your post 'to the bone', is sorta creepily literal, and even I don't wish to address that fetish.

But, an idea. Everyone has heard about cleaining with a toothbrush. Naturally.

Clean, with a toothbrush, in your mouth.

Just a thought,
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RE: Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/7/2006 7:27:04 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

robby, I'm not a Domme, but I'd like a crack at this.

Actually, your mentioning in the title and in your post 'to the bone', is sorta creepily literal, and even I don't wish to address that fetish.

But, an idea. Everyone has heard about cleaining with a toothbrush. Naturally.

Clean, with a toothbrush, in your mouth.

Just a thought,
Jeff

Have you seen the harness that goes on your face that hold different cleaning tools?
I think I saw one that had a lil dildo part to act as a gag too...
What damn site was that... www.extremerestraints.com I think...

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RE: Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/7/2006 8:13:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MistressSassy66

quote:

ORIGINAL: mstrjx

robby, I'm not a Domme, but I'd like a crack at this.

Actually, your mentioning in the title and in your post 'to the bone', is sorta creepily literal, and even I don't wish to address that fetish.

But, an idea. Everyone has heard about cleaining with a toothbrush. Naturally.

Clean, with a toothbrush, in your mouth.

Just a thought,
Jeff

Have you seen the harness that goes on your face that hold different cleaning tools?
I think I saw one that had a lil dildo part to act as a gag too...
What damn site was that... www.extremerestraints.com I think...

I think it would be terribly confusing. Was it tilt my head to the left to apply the wax, or was it to the right? Ow, my eye!!!

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RE: Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/7/2006 9:02:20 PM

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LOL...
How you gonna poke your eye out when its on your chin? Damn your flexible if you can do that...LMAO

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RE: Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/8/2006 8:56:30 AM

GoddessDustyGold

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Hello all,

Just wondering... I recently as part of my service to a Domme asked (well begged) to have her work my fingers to the bone. It's kind of funny because as much as I enjoy pain, I don't think I really meant that.
However I did want to be worked hard, and "serve" well beyond the norm. I have seen people spend hours on a weekend cleaning and doing yardwork... So now, I am wondering, if I offer to have my fingers worked to the bone, what might that mean to a Domme. Please understand, I am not looking for lists (although that helps)... I just ask genuinely what do you think a normal (vanilla even) days domestic work might be vs. a slave who offers to work extra hard to provide service...

Thanks for any thoughts... :)
robby.

Hi stinky...

My honest opinion is that most boys feel that doing normal housework is working their fingers to the bone. Unless you are already a fussbudget who pays attention to detail, most boys do not realize what proper cleaning really entails.
Unless I wanted to be amused and it didn't matter to Me whether things got really clean in the time available, I wouldn't hand a boy a toothbrush (to scrub the floor) or a pair of nail sissors (to clip the lawn). It takes too long and I prefer efficiency. That way lots more can get done in the same amount of time.
Take her demands and commands seriously, work hard, ask for direction if and when you need some, and smile! If you are serious about working your fingers to the bone, then just cleaning the house from top to bottom would work for Me. Cleaning with a happy attitude works even better.
Good luck on your weekend. Only she can know what she has in store or how she takes your wish to "work you fingers to the bone".

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RE: Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/8/2006 9:27:41 AM

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Wow....Have I got some work for you!

LOL!

I agree with Dusty Gold.....Work and be Happy!

Nothing turns Me on more than seeing that My sub/slave is truly enjoying their service to Me.

Be in peace,
Dame D.

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RE: Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/8/2006 9:36:02 AM

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Cipping the lawn with nail clippers...hmmm taking notes! lol

I agree cleaning the house from top to bottom would suit me, but of course I would check with a white glove, and if I was not pleased...well...that's another topic I am afraid.

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RE: Working my fingers to the "bone"... - 9/8/2006 10:44:38 AM

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Frankly the idea of working your fingers to the bone means nothing to me. Unless I know what you think that qualifies as then it communicates no information except perhaps that you are dealing with a fantasy and not with reality.

Instead of looking at it from what you want to experience think about the types of work you can offer. What is your experience with housework or yardwork and what types? How about construction or home repair or car repair?

I think this will do two things.

If it is a fetish or a "it will turn me on" thing then by stating what you can do and not what you want to do in clearer ways you are increasing your chances of getting what you want. Hard to give someone what they want if they can't be clear about it, right?

However if you really want to feel worked as you imagine a slave is then by listing what you can do you are also handing over the choice to your dom which empowers her and can help you get into that mindset easier by not having more say in the work assignment.

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