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That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 9:52:58 AM

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Hello all,

Once again I wanted to say Hi and thank everyone for the great messages being posted and the honest feedback that people are offering. I have always thought that kinky folks also usually turn out to be great people :)

Anyway on to my questions... Lately my Domme has been coming up with some intersting "new" and now traditional punishments. I appreciate the time she takes thinking these things up and wanted to share a couple and also ask if anyone other Dommes would care to offer some in return..

Anyhow... after the football game "even" as a slave I get the odd break... She might do a few of the following which she has taken too lately...

- Doing chores in heels on being at least a one inch difference then the other. I cant walk in those things to save my life but this just puts it over the top. Thankfully she keeps me near by and allows me lots of sitting time :)

- A surprise samwhich... She will make a samwhich based on leftovers and jars in the fridge... Sometimes i wear a blindfold and she asks me to guess what I am having... By the way, Tuna and Peanut Butter donk go together (who knew)

- A recent and fun one was when she tied my right hand behind my back (I am right handed) then she had me do all sort of tasks. Writing, dialing a phone, throwing and catching (it was fun). Then I washed the floor and the bathroom it took me ages (with one, wrong hand) definetly more fun for her.

- Then she asked me to count all the money in her purse, and wash it with a damp cloth, and then clean the coins in hot water and a little soap... Money laundering.. (funny Mistress) :)

Anyhow... Thanks for any other fun ideas..
robby.

RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 11:29:26 AM

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Money laundering..haa haa I love it! You are lucky to be with such a creative Mistress.

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 11:52:08 AM

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I like the left-handed task.

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 1:24:03 PM

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One of my first dominant friends moved in with me for the summer once while she was getting back on her feet after some bad times. She was wonderful for making me uncomfortable at a drop of the hat. One evening, she wanted me to cook dinner, and while I was in the middle of putting on some water to boil for some pasta, she slipped behind me and then snapped thumb cuffs on both of my thumbs so that I had to make this dinner while my hands were locked together. I never realized how hard it was to do it, and I was getting burned by hot water constantly because my balance was completely off.

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 2:52:29 PM

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LOL- the heels and left-handed chores. You have a good Mistress indeed!

A few come to mind:

There is a gag head harness that allows dusters or brushes to be attached for cleaning. Clean with no hands...not even one.

The sub mop. Tie sponges to sub's rear and insist tile floors be soaped and cleaned while scooting on rear only. No removing the sponges.

Add a timing element into chores - use a kitchen timer and designate punishments for not completing within allowed time.

Add something tedious and distracting into chores - balancing a small item was one that someone else I know has a lot of fun with. Punishment if item is touched, re-adjusted with hands or dropped before task is completed.

Earn your release. Shoo him nude into the shower to be blasted with hot and cold water alternately while he's working on it. Have him sit on a bag of frozen peas or ice(wrapped in a towel). Offer a masturbation toy (sleeve) that has been chilled for him to use while you watch. Do everything to disturb his concentration. Restrain his hands and insist he roll about on the floor and rub against things to try to climax. This has been incredibly amusing for Me in the past.

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 3:17:07 PM

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Add something tedious and distracting into chores - balancing a small item was one that someone else I know has a lot of fun with. Punishment if item is touched, re-adjusted with hands or dropped before task is completed.

I have no idea why but a couple doughnuts on a hard on while cleaning floors came to mind.

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 5:09:40 PM

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I'm unclear.

How are these punishments? What did they offer correction for?

They sound like fun to me maybe some enforcement of authority or power dynamics or simply to make her laugh but why are they called punishments?

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 5:30:55 PM

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Oh how we get bored, amusing ourselves is a reward indeed. lol

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 5:36:06 PM

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Well,

I am not sure all punishments need to seem so traditional... I don't need to be hurt to learn a lesson.

Also let's face it, some times it seems to me that we loose sight of the fact that even as part of the lifestyle it is "OK" to have fun, to laugh, and to enjoy... I am her's and I should serve and amuse her... and if I get to enjoy it along the way then I figure all the better.

Besides... If you don't think that the Peanut Butter and Tuna samwhich was punishment... Then you may want to try one :)

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 8:37:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Anyhow... Thanks for any other fun ideas..
robby.

So I guess what I missed out of this is what the punishment was being doled out for. It seems like an awful amount of things for you being punished for (ie. things you've done wrong and need redirection or correction for.) Or, is this a matter of semantics and she's using these methods as a form of DISCIPLINE?

As for the punishments I employ that are on the creative/bizarre side:
-- rice or beans in shoes
-- sleeping on uncomfortable items (army men under the sheets are particularly annoying)
-- nose to the wall holding a dime, or a piece of dental floss suspending a washer
-- moving rock piles back and forth in the driveway
-- counting and arranging screws, nuts and bolts in my toolboxes
-- counting pieces out of a bale of straw (it takes roughly 8 hours, FYI)
-- cleaning horse stalls with bare hands

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/10/2006 8:57:26 PM

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ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Well,

I am not sure all punishments need to seem so traditional... I don't need to be hurt to learn a lesson.

Also let's face it, some times it seems to me that we loose sight of the fact that even as part of the lifestyle it is "OK" to have fun, to laugh, and to enjoy... I am her's and I should serve and amuse her... and if I get to enjoy it along the way then I figure all the better.

Besides... If you don't think that the Peanut Butter and Tuna samwhich was punishment... Then you may want to try one :)

OK, so our understanding of this is a matter of semantics.

Punishment by definition is a penalty imposed for wrongdoing.

Discipline by one of it's more customary definitions is training to act in accordance with established rules; accustoming to systematic and regular action; drill. (While I do admit that Webster's does cover a remote definition of "discipline as punishment" referencing the strap being used on someone, my suspicions are that it's more corruption of the term than anything.)

So in my mind, what you've experienced is discipline, in that you've done nothing wrong to warrant correction: this was just because she felt like inflicting this on you to "teach you some discipline."

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 4:49:28 AM

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greeting robby

i am glad you had fun but i did not think anyone of them were funny oh wait the caount was ok. but the walking with the shoe uneven was a bad one, you see you spine be become if this is dome for long period it will become mislined and once it happen it hurts like hell.

mons ( but if you had fun it is ok i guess

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 8:02:02 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Well,

I am not sure all punishments need to seem so traditional... I don't need to be hurt to learn a lesson.

Also let's face it, some times it seems to me that we loose sight of the fact that even as part of the lifestyle it is "OK" to have fun, to laugh, and to enjoy... I am her's and I should serve and amuse her... and if I get to enjoy it along the way then I figure all the better.

Besides... If you don't think that the Peanut Butter and Tuna samwhich was punishment... Then you may want to try one :)

I'm still not seeing an answer to my question.

What were these punishments for?

What did you learn from them?

If don't know if these are real punishments or fun "punishments" it is difficult for me to share anything of a similar vein.

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 8:14:45 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Well,

I am not sure all punishments need to seem so traditional... I don't need to be hurt to learn a lesson.

Also let's face it, some times it seems to me that we loose sight of the fact that even as part of the lifestyle it is "OK" to have fun, to laugh, and to enjoy... I am her's and I should serve and amuse her... and if I get to enjoy it along the way then I figure all the better.

Besides... If you don't think that the Peanut Butter and Tuna samwhich was punishment... Then you may want to try one :)

I'm still not seeing an answer to my question.

What were these punishments for?

What did you learn from them?

If don't know if these are real punishments or fun "punishments" it is difficult for me to share anything of a similar vein.

Does it truly matter what HER reasons where for these punishments where as long as they reminded her submissive/slave of his place with her and perhaps showed him that he had displeased her or perhaps she thought needed a reminder of what she expected from him.

robby, thank you for sharing. I think those would def. get my attention and deture me from being displeasing!

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 11:37:18 AM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Anyhow... Thanks for any other fun ideas..
robby.

As for the punishments I employ that are on the creative/bizarre side:
-- rice or beans in shoes
-- sleeping on uncomfortable items (army men under the sheets are particularly annoying)
-- nose to the wall holding a dime, or a piece of dental floss suspending a washer
-- moving rock piles back and forth in the driveway
-- counting and arranging screws, nuts and bolts in my toolboxes
-- counting pieces out of a bale of straw (it takes roughly 8 hours, FYI)
-- cleaning horse stalls with bare hands

MisPandora....

Kudos. Sincerely. If these are just a few, I can only imagine We think on a similar wavelength. I wish I still had My horses!

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 5:21:24 PM

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ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika

quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

quote:

ORIGINAL: zzzstinky

Well,

I am not sure all punishments need to seem so traditional... I don't need to be hurt to learn a lesson.

Also let's face it, some times it seems to me that we loose sight of the fact that even as part of the lifestyle it is "OK" to have fun, to laugh, and to enjoy... I am her's and I should serve and amuse her... and if I get to enjoy it along the way then I figure all the better.

Besides... If you don't think that the Peanut Butter and Tuna samwhich was punishment... Then you may want to try one :)

I'm still not seeing an answer to my question.

What were these punishments for?

What did you learn from them?

If don't know if these are real punishments or fun "punishments" it is difficult for me to share anything of a similar vein.

Does it truly matter what HER reasons where for these punishments where as long as they reminded her submissive/slave of his place with her and perhaps showed him that he had displeased her or perhaps she thought needed a reminder of what she expected from him.

robby, thank you for sharing. I think those would def. get my attention and deture me from being displeasing!

Yes.

He said he learned a lesson and wanted to know what others did for punishments.

I'm assuming there was a lesson to be learned but I have yet to see what it was for.

Was the nasty sandwich a response to his complaining about food -- should he be more grateful to be fed in her house?

Is the doing chores in high heels in response to his not paying enough attention to details when he's doing chores?

When people use terms like "punishment" wily nily they are not communicating in a very effective manner and thus requests like "what types of odd punishments do you use" are difficult if not impossible to answer.

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 6:05:57 PM

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You are "corrent"...

These items and many many more... were done more out of a desire to train me then to punish me. Although, I didn't want to go into all the details as it may have sidetracked the conversation originally, I do think that sometimes the "things" done to me are in response to my behaviors and actions.

Yes parhaps complaining about food, did get me the nasty sandwhich...

The reality is however that I think my Domme just does these things sometimes because we both enjoy them :)

Oh by the way "THANKS" MisPandora, now I going to have an awful time sleeping tonight :)

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 6:07:48 PM

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quote:

ORIGINAL: thetammyjo

I'm unclear.

How are these punishments? What did they offer correction for?

They sound like fun to me maybe some enforcement of authority or power dynamics or simply to make her laugh but why are they called punishments?

In My mind these are punishments that dont need to have some underlying lesson.
Perhaps he forgot some little detail,no spoon on the tray for example when serveing coffee,that wouldnt warrant a severe punishment,but it would make them think next time.
Even if they are for Mistresses amusments that arnt fun or rewards so punishment is an appropriate word.

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 7:32:06 PM

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My theory on this post is like a Toyota Dealership: "You asked for it, you got it."
Glad to oblige :-)

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RE: That punishment was odd... but I got the message... - 9/11/2006 7:35:10 PM

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ORIGINAL: Phoenixandnika

Does it truly matter what HER reasons where for these punishments where as long as they reminded her submissive/slave of his place with her and perhaps showed him that he had displeased her or perhaps she thought needed a reminder of what she expected from him.

robby, thank you for sharing. I think those would def. get my attention and deture me from being displeasing!

Actually, in my mind it does matter. In this lifestyle, we do confuse terms quite a bit. It's hard to provide advice for someone (as was solicited from the female dominas) when we're not sure if he was asking for actual punishments for wrongdoings, or creative ways to discipline someone.

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