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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/11/2005 12:49:48 AM

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/12/2005 2:31:55 PM

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ORIGINAL: Estring

My advice would be to wait for the final Star Wars installment to come out, and base your life on that instead.

does that mean that as a slave i would get to do Chubaka?

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/12/2005 2:43:17 PM

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Well you know the size of Chewbacka, just imagine the size of his male parts.

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/12/2005 11:28:07 PM

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ORIGINAL: nella

Well you know the size of Chewbacka, just imagine the size of his male parts.

Yep, you would be Chewing and he would be backaing (Pronounced ~ Bark-a-ing)

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/13/2005 7:00:57 PM

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iinterstate,

I will answer your original question this way, the answer is Yes and No.

My personal opion is that no Good Honorable Master would require a slave to permanently give up contact with family or friends.

However, we all know people that have come from abusive family relationships, and if the sub/slave is recognized as be a sub/slave in such realtionships they can be taken advantage of and harmed. Would it be right for her Master to command her to give up contact in such a relationship for her own good?

Second many people do not understand the relationship of Master/slave and frankly do not agree with it. In those cases if they have a strong influence on a slave it might be warranted to expect an end to the contact.

Gor is based upon the concept of total slavery and total Mastering, senuality and honor and it is in the pursuit of this aim that is at it's heart. ON Gor not all men were Master's so neither should expect that in real life that not all men would be Masters. Neither can all women be made to be slaves (the law) protects them :). So 100% Gor can never be realized in the civilized world.

However with any relationship, take from the books what turns you on and if you are going to be slave know the limits of any potential Master, know (Him) because His limits will be yours...

Remember when ever you take a Master, whether Gorean or not you are saying I Trust you totally, and surrender all power to you. I believe you have my physical, emotional, sexual, financial and spirtual well being at heart and that He is your safe harbor, allowing you to be what you are naturally.... slave

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/14/2005 5:52:27 PM

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We have pride, self respect, self-esteem - we know that we are worth something to the one whose steel is against our flesh. That gives us a sense of security that we build on and grow from as individuals. Our strength within ourselves is augmented and boosted and added to by our Master. We take our knowledge of our value, our confidence, from Him.

The man that is considering me,,,likes these characteristics in me.one of the reasons he choose to start a correspondence(he saw this in my writing on my profile). he knows I am a strong woman,that has a deepest desire to be known in such a way that only he can know.(ah the joy of having a man realize I have a submissive heart/mind by nature).

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/16/2005 5:11:16 PM

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I identify as a Domme yet I find the Gorean lifestyle fascinating but then again I have a submissive nature deep in my soul.

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/16/2005 5:15:05 PM

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is that not how it is nowadays in all reality?
Yes I am free to do alot of things with my life but I do not earn the same pay for the same job as a man would even tho I may have more of an education.
Patriachial society still sets limits on what woman can do...

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/16/2005 5:21:16 PM

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In Norway the law states a woman and a man shall earn the same for the same work, a male car mechanic and a female car machanic will earn the same, ofcourse there are places where this do not work, but things are progressing, and the sosiety are becoming less male dominated and more balanced. But will there ever be as many women leaders as male ones? i dont know, often in my experience women tend to crave less leadership than their male counterparts.

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/16/2005 5:34:03 PM

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I must say I do have to agree with this philosophy.
One can NOT mold,teach,mentor another in a few hours a week.
It takes time to help another reach their full potential.

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/16/2005 7:47:27 PM

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oops.

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/17/2005 12:23:52 PM

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wasn't sure which you had oopsed too, in order for me to repsond.
BTW thank you for your post in another thread the other day.
It definately has me pondering my soul.

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/18/2005 5:08:53 PM

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i agree to teatch somone or to learn one need time but a few houers a week is better than nothing, a houer a month or even a year is better than nothing.

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/19/2005 3:58:40 AM

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this is true nella but it goes back to the playing vs lifetime issue which has been dissected to pieces.
Personally I know I need a few hours a day.Having been a Top in an r/t ltr w/ a man,I know I have habits/schemas that need reframing bigtime...but does that make me any less of a submissive heart,NO.
It just means some Master has alot of work and time and patience to invest in me,if they spotted the potential in my soul/mind.
playing Gor weekend warrior would not work in my case.I would need fulltime reinforcement I am sure,quick learner that I am..I am also stubborn and been in control for a long time.

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RE: Gor: How do I know what should be taken to heart? - 9/19/2005 4:37:54 AM

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True, i just comented that a little is better than none, i did not say that more is not better than a little. i agree whit you, i just made a coment.

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