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Anal Sex Question - 9/12/2006 10:37:21 PM

substantialsub

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I have searched the forums in this section for some information about a specific issue with anal sex, namely pain associated with it in differing positions...

My Dom and I can have anal with me on my back or side with little trouble and I absolutely love it! It feels better in some ways then does vaginal sex, but the problem is this, it hurts to have it with me on my knees with my rearend up. It does not matter how much lube is used, it still hurts in this position. My Dominant very much prefers it in this position than the other ways I am able to comply, but in this position it feels like my skin is tearing. It is most unbearable for me.

I found that clitoral stimulation lessens the pain in the other position and I am able to orgasm very quickly, but on my stomach and knees it is somewhat harder to do that.

I was wondering what someone can do to ease the pain of having anal sex besides lube. If I were to use a butt plug slightly larger than my Dom would it help to stretch me out to be able to take him in this position? Has anyone else ever experienced this difficulty?

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RE: Anal Sex Question - 9/12/2006 10:51:14 PM

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I totally feel you on this subject, substantial. Some positions feel great, other's not so much. I've found that if you start in a position that is comfortable and then moving into a different position makes it much more bearable. Anal-eze is an amazing invention, if you haven't tried it, do so. Hope that helps!

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RE: Anal Sex Question - 9/12/2006 11:28:59 PM

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That is an interesting question. I'd like to see a doctor's thoughts on that. I also find some positions for that to be considerably more painful than others. For me it's kind of the opposite, if my rear end is up its more enjoyable, if I am flat on my tummy it is not.

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RE: Anal Sex Question - 9/14/2006 8:59:34 PM

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Do not use anal eze, If you numb the ass you'll not be able to feel when something truely wrong is going wrong and can do tons of damage not being able to feel when something negative might be happening.

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Anal-eze is an amazing invention, if you haven't tried it, do so. Hope that helps!

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RE: Anal Sex Question - 9/14/2006 11:14:11 PM

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I would reccomend taking a dildo (not a plug) in the position you're most comfortable in, and then working your way down the list to the most UNcomfortable.

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Anal Sex Question - 9/17/2006 9:31:32 PM

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Try this, have your Dom penetrate you from behind with your face down on the bed and your ass elevated by a pillow beneath your waist. After you're comfortable with his penis inside you, have him grab you by your shoulders and roll over putting him under you with his back on the bed and yours on his chest.... This position will make it easier for you to relax and for him to achieve more penetration without the pain or discomfort.....and you will have multiple orgasms this way, just have him play with your clit while you ride him.

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RE: Anal Sex Question - 9/17/2006 9:37:15 PM

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Have him angle his penis in a downward direction. Your rectum naturally curves towards your belly. This may not solve the problem, but it should ease it a bit. Above all else, don't force it if it hurts and feels like your "skin is tearing". That particular membrane is extremely susceptible to tearing and subsequent infection.

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RE: Anal Sex Question - 9/19/2006 4:58:47 AM

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I think most of us can relate, I found getting used to it for a while while I was on top cured those feelings for me.

We still tend to begin with me on top and then switch to the desired doggy. It can be a bit painful at the start when he just begins with me on all 4s but with enough practice it did become something that starts out a tad painful but never is at the point of needing to stop as it was at the beginning before I found out about being on top and trying that way.

Hope that helps.

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RE: Anal Sex Question - 9/20/2006 12:58:48 PM

Milivoje

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My simple advice would be... simple.

Have only anal sex for a longer period of time (if you can, because of the orgasmic side of things). In time you will get the things you are looking for.

I am still doing it with my slave. The one year mark is coming soon and she has no problems with that.

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