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RE: Strange Requests - 9/16/2006 7:44:51 PM

MisPandora

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ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

For Dom/mes I'm wondering if you've ever had a rather sudden, irrational impulse to request or require really strange things, not necessarily sex or play related. Maybe out of the blue you decide that a particular task or assignment would be beneficial to your subs growth in some way but perhaps have no rational idea as to why or how.

For subs/slaves has your Dom/me ever required something really odd from you that DID have a beneficial impact on you, but at the time seemed really weird and made no sense at all?

I really hope at least one person says yes, otherwise I will feel like a real weirdo.

Totally. I do off the wall things just because I can. Bizarre example: slave gets to eat only one food during the entire day (including if we go out somewhere.) It's awfully entertaining when he's trying to explain why he needs hot water for eating his instant oatmeal to the server when we're dining with friends at the japanese restaurant! Does it serve a purpose? I think so. It keeps him wondering. It leaves him forever unable to anticipate what I might do next!

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RE: Strange Requests - 9/16/2006 7:50:59 PM

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Hello A/all,

I took a door off the hinges in a place I was living and cut 1/4 inch off the bottom so it wouldnt bind to the carpet.

The person I stared at me for the longest time as I was doing this. Then she demanded rug burns on her knees and face immediately, and indicated afterwards that the sight of me with power tools doing things competently got her all hot and squishy.

Worked for me.

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RE: Strange Requests - 9/16/2006 9:01:18 PM

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Hmmm ... the one with the pan is pretty good, I may try that one myself. I've done the duty switch ... one domestic switching with the physical slave *lol* ... that was very funny. They didn't realize that they were judging each other harshly until they walked a week in the other ones shoes. So ... sometimes things are told in fun and other times ... to truly teach. Mostly for fun *s*

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RE: Strange Requests - 9/16/2006 9:11:43 PM

ayasha

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ORIGINAL: TNstepsout <snipped>

For subs/slaves has your Dom/me ever required something really odd from you that DID have a beneficial impact on you, but at the time seemed really weird and made no sense at all?

one has been asked to do things and one had no knowledge of why, it seemed an odd order but was followed. Later one was told the purpose of the exercise/order - and there was always a good, logical reason for it - but if there wasn't? not one's place to question it, is it?

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RE: Strange Requests - 9/17/2006 5:28:34 AM

Sinergy

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quote:

ORIGINAL: MisPandora

quote:

ORIGINAL: TNstepsout

For Dom/mes I'm wondering if you've ever had a rather sudden, irrational impulse to request or require really strange things, not necessarily sex or play related. Maybe out of the blue you decide that a particular task or assignment would be beneficial to your subs growth in some way but perhaps have no rational idea as to why or how.

For subs/slaves has your Dom/me ever required something really odd from you that DID have a beneficial impact on you, but at the time seemed really weird and made no sense at all?

I really hope at least one person says yes, otherwise I will feel like a real weirdo.

Totally. I do off the wall things just because I can. Bizarre example: slave gets to eat only one food during the entire day (including if we go out somewhere.) It's awfully entertaining when he's trying to explain why he needs hot water for eating his instant oatmeal to the server when we're dining with friends at the japanese restaurant! Does it serve a purpose? I think so. It keeps him wondering. It leaves him forever unable to anticipate what I might do next!

Hello A/all,

This post got me thinking about it. There is a rather important lesson which MsPandora is teaching him. This is the ability to be adaptive to and work through complex and changing situations.
Too many people, in my opinion, become hidebound and unable to function effectively when situation X becomes slightly (or greatly) different the next time they are confronted by it and attempt to use yesterdays behaviors for todays situations.

There is a quote which I believe comes from 12-Step Programs, wherein it is stated that "to a hammer, everything looks like a nail." This sort of bludgeoning insistence on refusing to modify one's own behavior to fit changing realities thwarts positive growth.

Kudos to you, MsPandora.

Just me, could be wrong, but there you go.

Sinergy

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RE: Strange Requests - 9/17/2006 7:00:46 AM

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ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross

I've ordered many weird things...but that's just because I have a weird life and weird things happen around me. People in my life get used to it and go with it.

There is that Hunter S Thompson saying:

When the going gets weird the weird turn pro.

Loved his stuff

Ross

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