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Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/21/2004 3:28:07 PM

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Mistresses,

This is weird. I can’t beleive it. Since I look at dominant female profiles (and switches) I assumed dominant guy looked at sumbissive female profiles. Four instances I’ve heard you get mail from Doms? Other than the innocuous, “Hey nice post” or “I have trouble tying that knot too” why? Do you have any idea why? Do the morons want to dom you or be your sub. I can see a confused guy wanting to explore submission, but do they claim to want to convert you?

That is assuming, of course that it happens a lot. (My sample size is 4; smal samples lead to poor conclusions

) I still think it must be an aberration. I never hit on a submissive female and asked if she every thought about being a Domme.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/21/2004 3:56:49 PM

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I received an e-mail from a Dom that said he found me interesting, it really didnt go any further. I have had a few Doms that sent me nasty messages and making remarks that I am a slave. I personally think they are jealous because my profession is my life. I really dont care what they think anyway, I only deal with people that respect me for who I am.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/21/2004 4:53:10 PM

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Ive gotten several invitations to spank a Dom guys arse.. or to ask if I want mine spanked.. I ignore them

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/22/2004 6:31:59 AM

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Sum Dominant Woman
Live beside Dominant Men
and Dominate beside Them
and sumtimes Dominant Men
seek Dominant Woman to do
just that.

I am into both Alpha Dominant
Men whom I Dominate beside
as well as slavemales whom I
Dominate over. Im not a Switch.
and Males corespondance positivly
that comes to Me is enjoyed.
I have had 8 negitive emails to
date from Men whom call Themselfs Dom.
3- called Me a Nigger
3- called Me a Fat Pig
1- called Me a BDSM Fake
1- said it would be a cold day in hell
befor he would marry sumone like Me.
( of course I had not contacted Him to
do such, nor contacted Him at all )
HOWEVER

I have had 11 emails that were
positive to date:
6- told Me I had a great profile
2- told Me that I was very attractive
1- told Me that I practice My
Sadistic ways very well
2- admired the way I Dominate
So the answer to your question
iwillserveu is yes Doms really do
email Me with out My asking Them
to. I will also tell You here that
Dommes email Doms as well as I
have at times when I see a Profile
of One I like write Him and tell
Him so, or even if I find a Pic of
Him appealing that was posted.

I as a Dominant Woman have never
been approched or tempted to be
Topped by any Dom to date. Maybe
I look to Dominant for the Men?
I have however been one time
tempted to be Topped by another
Domme. As per Her words, She
needed sumone stronger then Her
to bring out Her strenths and felt
that by Her tempting to Top Me
would do such. I dont think it helped.
LOL!!

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/22/2004 9:33:38 AM

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I have Dominant Male friends who are members of this site. I have developed email/chat/phone friendships with two Doms that I met here as a result of an email sent to me by them.
I have received some not so friendly email from several males, listed as dominant, suggesting that I "get in touch with my submissive side" and that they are "just the man" to assist me in that endeavor.
I received one email informing me that I "need to be whipped".

However, more than anything else they claim that they are primarily dominant, but want to explore their submissive side.

I have initiated email to Dominant males (and Women as well) if I am impressed by their profiles in any way, particularly poetry, composition/content, and photography. I am known for complimenting beautiful work.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/22/2004 5:42:29 PM

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Yes, Iwillservu, I have had the experience in the past four years as a practicing Mistress of having Doms email me. They email me because they want to explore their submissive side - they have Dom'd for awhile and want to experience being taken. Also, I have met some very nice intelligent guy Dom friends. We have chatted via email and IM, met, and somehow, somewhere, they decided that they wanted me to Dom them. I think sometimes people are curious. The good Doms know it can be alot of fun to receive all the pain/pleasure, so it makes sense! They are also open to themselves and not so one-sided I guess that it didn't sound like fun...I submitted to one one time and it was ok for me - I liked him, but the being dominated didn't do it for me. One time, however, I got dominated mid-scene by a submissive of mine and I ended up enjoying it very much. Never happened again, it was just that scene! I guess it just depends on the people and the situation.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/23/2004 2:12:02 PM

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Dread,

I am not a supplicant to you., but let me say some nice things.

As a former fatty I can sympathize. Everyone judges only what they see. Idiots who do not know you will assume it is OK to say stupid trash.

The thing is, it is stupid trash. It sounds cliche, but it is true. As long as you like yourself that is all that matters. Besides you will always be the most lovely woman to a msan (or men) (or men and women) who love you.

I know that wasn't the point of your post, but as a former fatty that crap you refered to gets my Irish up.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/23/2004 2:16:11 PM

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Reading the replies I've decide to ask female subs for a BJ. (Is that OK with you M'Lady?

)

(For those that can't tell [hi, sleet] I am not switching and was joking.)

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When the Lady smiles i can't resist her call. As a matter of fact, i don't resist at all. Well that depends if it is a smile or a grimmace.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/23/2004 4:31:26 PM

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I have had several Doms email me. Some demand that I submit to them. I think it may be that some think themselves superior if they get a Mistress to submit. Of course, I am listed as a switch so I may not be a good candidate to ask, since it makes sense that I would get some emails from Doms.

Frankly, I email Doms, too. Well, I emailed a few and found one really good friend out of the process.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/23/2004 6:23:00 PM

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Kiss,

(In case you don'y know, no insult intended by dropping the "Mistress" part.)

Even though you are listed as a switch, the capilization and the term "Mistress" kinda scream Dominant. The listing as a swich adds a "for now."

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When the Lady smiles i can't resist her call. As a matter of fact, i don't resist at all. Well that depends if it is a smile or a grimmace.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/23/2004 11:28:38 PM

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It still amazes me that people I have never met think they understand me and my motives. If there is a "for now" to my Dominance or my submission, that's really my business. I would suggest less judgment and more understanding, especially in a public forum and most especially when you don't have any interaction with the person that you have "pegged" outside of this medium.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/24/2004 7:26:58 AM

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Additionally, isn't the acknowledgment of "dropping the Mistress part" a bit of an insult in and of itself? Sometimes, I just don't get you, iwill.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/24/2004 12:04:10 PM

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Kiss,

i don't mean because you are a switch or anything. I drop it from Dread and Mary too.

There can only be one I call Mistress at a time. Unfortunately that term means something to me. "Goddess", "Miz", and "Lady" don't carry that.

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When the Lady smiles i can't resist her call. As a matter of fact, i don't resist at all. Well that depends if it is a smile or a grimmace.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 4/29/2004 6:38:29 PM

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Heck yeah! In my experience here, they NEVER have anything positive to say to me. Unlike MistressDread, I didn't keep count; I just deleted them.

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 5/3/2004 3:28:42 AM

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The majority of messages I receive from Dom men are insulting and just in really stupid way too...LOL! I also thought men who liked to "act" dominant just had a problem realizing their inferiority to the superior sex. And of course it does say ALOT that they are cruising thru dom women profiles just to leave a nasty message.....Can anyone say INSECURITY?

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RE: Do Dom's really e-mail you? - 5/3/2004 1:03:23 PM

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E V E R Y T H I N G!!

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if you havent noticed
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