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Sinergy -> RE: The sweetest thing... (9/18/2006 2:27:22 PM)
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Hello A/all,
I was with somebody for a while when i was getting up at 4am to go to work. I bought a little cup warmer next to the bed. And in the mornings I would leave a cup of coffee for her when she woke up 2 hours after I had gone to work.
Sometimes I would buy flowers for her on the way home.
I would at times call her and ask her to get ready to go out, and then surprise her with a night at Disneyland, or dancing, or at a Comedy and Magic Club.
Take her out to dinner and order her the Cioppino and have a nice Chianti with it.
She said to me one time that she loved the Chronicles of Narnia when she was a child. One morning she woke up and the book I bought her was sitting on her pillow next to her with a red rose as a bookmark, and I was gone to work. I received a wonderful phone call in the sexiest and most loving voice at work thanking me for giving her that.
I am one of those twisted freaks in life that notices things. She would change her hair and I would compliment her on it. She would clean the house and I would thank her for doing it.
The list goes on. Being one of those weird noticing things types of people, I see what she goes ooo and aah at. I hear what she says. I remember it, and surprise her with it days or weeks or years later.
I refuse to spend my time here in some sort of psychotic quid pro quo fantasy. I do these things for her because she does many things, in her own way, for me. I have been in relationships where it went way too long with her doing nothing to put the relationship there, and I was nice about expressing what I needed, but I was firm when my needs were not met and I reached the limit I had set and ended it.
Just me, etc.
Sinergy
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