What happens if I get pregnant?

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Master96 -> What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 11:54:20 AM)
That is one of OsideGirl’s advices to ask the potential Dom. I ask both Doms and subs… how do you practice D/s though pregnancy? Also, how do you describe your feelings and emotions? Well, being a D/s life-stylist. Master96, ---------------------- Understand that actions will always speak louder than words. OsideGirl

crouchingtigress -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 12:01:19 PM)
could you be more clear what you are asking?

LuckyAlbatross -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 12:02:44 PM)
Perhaps he means "Does being pregnant in a Ds or Ms relationship change how you work together? If so, how?"

Master96 -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 12:04:07 PM)
Well, What would be the best answer for OsideGirl’s question? Edited..... thanks LA. Master96,

Silvermoon -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 12:43:09 PM)
I'm not too clear on the question either. Are you asking, can you play during pregnancy? If so the answer is yes, if it's a normal healthy pregnancy. There's a few things to be aware of, of course, mainly circulation changes and how some of the horomones affect the female body. There are articles out there (I may even have a few) about this subject. Feel free to contact off board if you like. Personally speaking..I lose all desire to play when I become pregnant. Sincerely. Silver

AnAtlantaDom -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 12:44:12 PM)
My suggestion to Master96 is you're a big boy now, DON'T let yourself get pregnant <wink> AD

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 12:44:24 PM)
To me, nothing changes in a D/s or M/s relationship unless there are physical restaints being added by the doctor. I.e. she becomes bed-ridden. Even then, she is still expected to be submissive to me. I believe that D/s and M/s are whole and seperate entities from B/D and S/M.

justheather -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 12:45:27 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: Master96 Well, What would be the best answer for OsideGirl’s question? Edited..... thanks LA. Master96, Are you sure OsideGirl's question isn't more along the lines of "If we were to get pregnant, what would be your feelings and thoughts regarding keeping the baby vs adoption vs abortion and will you commit to be there emotionally and financially whatever choice we make." To me, that's what "What if we get pregnant" seems to be about.

sweetnurseBBW -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 1:16:08 PM)
If there are no complications you can play during a pregnancy. At certain times some things may need to be toned down a bit depending on what your likes are. Just have to go by how comfortable you are and how the pregnancy is progressing.

thetammyjo -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 1:42:07 PM)
Being pregnant and having a child changes one's priorities and perspective for most people I've known whether kinky, vanilla, marriage, paired or single. Pregnancy itself is a hormonal roller coaster for 40 weeks usually. Assuming one's partner will not go through these changes and that those changes will not affect your relationship, is setting one's self up for problems and possible damaging to the relationship. Having a child also must affect your priorities and attitudes, it certainly affects your time availability. Same as above: thinking it won't is foolish. If one does not wish to deal with these changes, then one needs to avoid pregnancy. Luckily there are methods available to both males and females including permenant methods or simply avoiding activities that risk pregnancy.

Avrilkiller -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 3:42:49 PM)
i have a veyr close friend couple who recently had their baby. T/they continued through her pregnancy as normal, with Him simply taking responsibility to her condition. Other than that, nothign was different. Just don't let Them beat your stomache, lol.

OhReallyNow -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 3:52:14 PM)
quote: ORIGINAL: LuckyAlbatross Perhaps he means "Does being pregnant in a Ds or Ms relationship change how you work together? If so, how?" while with her first Master, this slave became pregnant. her pregnancy did not change the dynamic ( in fact, we never even married until the unmentionable was close to 4 years old, and then it was only because Master was sick and he wanted us taken care of legally and financially ) The only thing that DID change with the birth, was this slave gave up being naked all the time [:(] ( yes, she actually did stay naked at all times while in the house [:)], and boy does she miss those days ) *as in regards to any kind of floggings, canings, etc; Master became very genlte with those out of safety*

Frank01 -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 3:57:40 PM)
Dump her ass, I had a vasectomy.

NastyDaddy -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 4:58:25 PM)
It does makes me feel weird to ruin a perfectly good bowl of icecream by shoving dill pickles into it, but I tend to aclimate well to weirdness.

mnottertail -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 5:33:22 PM)
I checked your profile and it says you are a man, so it would fall in the catagory of miracle anyway........ Hard to offer an opinion without frame of reference, you see? Ron

BrokenDoll -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 5:50:32 PM)
Honestly things should change if a sub or domme gets pregnent first off she is gunna need a lot more help, dude if your haveing your slave doing all the house work and waiting on you hand and foot even serving you (imo the male should be doing that kinda stuff when the female is pregnent at least when she is heavily pregnent anyway)at 8 months pregnent your not a Dom your an idiot and an ass!! There are deffinetly things that can be done during pregnency but Ill be damned if it is healthy for the child or the mother to be doing full on BDSM S/M M/s or whatever it is you normaly practice. remeber that child hardly consented to play and weather you like it or not the fetus is gunna be part of what ever play it is you are doing. If your sub or slave is haveing horrible morning sickness or her back is hurting from the pregnancy dont tell me for her own health you arent going to demand she rest and take it easy. Please if she is haveing eather of them things and her Master demands her to serve him in any way(on your knees and suck me or even i want a drink now) That man isnt any kinda man any slave or sub should exept as a Master. Im sorry but I have stong opinions on the matter as now we arent only dealing with the slave here we are also dealing with an inosent unborn unconsenting child.

mons -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/21/2006 11:40:42 PM)
mrdispline44 you oh i wish you were my slave and still be a man but let me get you pregant. i make you have at least 4 and then have youy submit to me. you heavy with preagancis wanting food i would make you wait until you serve me dinner. then and only then would you have anything to eat. now that said 44 being pregant is something short of a mircle to have a child grown inside you is hard you have yo belly gronwing you want strangs things. like toliet paper wasing powder. but to make her still submissive not good i do not know if you have childern or not or if you have ever been with a woman who is going to give birth some woman do not want to be touch! oral sex is out it may make throw up on you. the changes are so great and she will not want she just becasue you are the master she still may throw up on you. i was differebnt i was hot as i could be. but this is not for others if she could serve you still you would be unkind to make her pregancy is not for the weak mons

GentleDominantx2 -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/22/2006 12:06:02 AM)
I would be far more concerned for the child on the way to worry about playing. then again I'm a bit different then most.

sub4hire -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/22/2006 2:31:17 AM)
I think with everything in life, you'd have the baby and adapt to the best ability you can. Life is full of ups and downs. Hopefully if you were to get pregnant it would be an up. Play would change as you changed and hopefully you would'nt lose sight of yourself in the process.

MrDiscipline44 -> RE: What happens if I get pregnant? (9/22/2006 6:16:12 AM)
Funny, brokendoll, but attitudes like yours are the reasons women get fired from their jobs when they get pregnant. Try reading my statement again and this time, stuff you emotions in your pocket instead of wearing them on your sleeve.(or go shirtless, your choice [;)]) I said nothing about play and did say that if there were no limitations put upon her. Try not to project something negative into an innoxious statement just for the sake of starting an agruement.

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