twicehappy -> RE: BDSM Definitions? (9/27/2006 7:31:24 AM)
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ORIGINAL: twicehappy So yes yours would be considered, *at least by us, to be a 24/7 M/s relationship. quote:
ORIGINAL: justheather Why should someone with her own relationship, however functional or not, be concerned with what your family considers them? I really have no idea why someone would be concerned with what my family considered their relationship to be except perhaps that they were in a conversation with my Master (ScooterTrash) at the time. See below; quote:
ORIGINAL: ScooterTrash To me, no dynamic is clarified solely by the mindset..it is the physical relationship as well. quote:
ORIGINAL: ownedgirlie Is she still considered something other than a 24/7 slave, by your definition? Perhaps before responding or commenting on a post you should go back and peruse in its entirety the post that sparked the reply. quote:
ORIGINAL: justheather So, if you want to come up with your family's view of what's what, hey, more power to you. Just please don't expect everyone else to honor your definitions. Once again, you should have read the entire thread before commenting though in truth your comments leave me wondering if you read any of it at all. Here are some very pertinent quotes below that state rather clearly what i am looking for and why; ORIGINAL: twicehappy "So in the interest of finding out if we can agree on definitions i am asking everyone who cares to add to this to give their definition of certain terms." "After a week or so i will add up the ones that are similar and see how it came out then post the ones who were the most repeated or agreed with." On other threads a few folks have been discussing why bdsm is not more mainstream, why it is so misunderstood by vanilla society and the various things that would have to occur to bring it to the forefront much as the gay and lesbian movement once did and continues to do." "It was concurred that two of the biggest issues were that we would all have to be able agree, at least by a majority on something, well on anything for a start and that we needed to be able to give recognizable (within reason, allowing that there are many subgroups) definitions to some of our terminology." "This is an attempt to do so, at lest to see if it is possible at any rate." "those who are unhappy with the definition of switch i have a proposal; instead of telling me you guys are unhappy, flesh out your definition of switch and post it. What you stated above is great but some switches are truly only into the physical aspects of WIITWD." "Remember what i am trying to come up with are simple basic definitions that would be understood by any person including and especially those who are unfamiliar with WIITWD in the vanilla world. So we would want a basic easy to understand definition, leaving the infinite variety of possibilities for a later date." "As a better example when the gay/lesbian movement started they agreed on simply "gay and lesbian" with the greater understanding that within the group there were many variations like butch etc but that presenting themselves as a united front required simple definitions that the vanilla public could grasp." "This is not nor is it intended to be a popularity contest. If you disagree with all the definitions instead of disagreeing please post your definitions here, the purpose of the thread is to see if we can get a general consensus on the definitions, not to get everybody to agree with mine." "If they do fine, then they are already posted, if they do not then they need to post their own; who knows maybe someone else's will turn out to be what the majority concurs with but unless they post them we will never know." "I am trying to take it just a little further and find terms that are not only a starting point for those involved in the lifestyle but that would be comprehensible to those who are not." After you have read the entire thread if you can find one word where i state mine is the one true way, that everybody must agree with my definitions, please feel free to come back and post them here. Concerning coming up with my family's view of what is what, we do not need to, we already agree. Nor is it about forcing what we believe down everyone else's throat. It is about just what i stated in the OP.
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