MistressDREAD -> RE: The real 24/7 life (1/22/2004 4:53:25 PM)
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Alternate Lifestyles..... just what does this mean, Much less on a 24/7 one evening, 3 month, 6 month, year or lifetime contractual basis? We as Alternate Lifestylers are the Free Thinkers of the World and with this position comes the understanding that each couple, group, assembly of Us make Our Own arangements that best suit each of Our situations in life living. Humans have a strong interest in sex, but it is relatively rare to encounter rational discussion about sex, even between partners. As with all activities about which people are passionate, and which involve biological drives, the topic of sexuality is rife with controversy, misunderstanding, stereotypes, and moralizing, and Alternate Lifestyles is not about sex first or even second but about Power Exchange first and formost and a love of being free to choose. It is our belief that the widespread availability of information about Power Exchange and sexual matters can help facilitate better communication, and communication is the most important skill that one can bring to any relationship and is the most important skill that is needed in Alternate Lifestyles for the Power Play and Protical. Everyone needs to remember that the most important sexual organ is the brain. For the sake of labels I am a Sadist Poly Gorean Domme that lives in a Dominant/ Dominant/multiple slaves/Vanilla situation. I think where the complexity comes in for most Im reading here is when it comes to Alternate Lifestyles for those whom have not been in the lifestyle long and have not really established what position with in this lifestyle they sit, be it only as a sumtimesy Top and bottom that play maybe twice a week for kinks and are vanilla the rest of the time or the Lord or Lady with 30 plus years experiance in Our Lifestyle and Live 24/7 with in the Dominance of such with their suplicants. Any whom say they are one thing but * act like another with in this Lifestyle are either confused, a Switch, or not trained in what the position they choose to claim to be with in holds and this is called cheating. Here is a defination for those whom do not understand My take on those whom * cheat in their choice of Lifestyle position.In other words, cheating is to convey through deliberate action the impression that one is of a particular nature while one is, in fact, something quite different. What this boils down to is confusion for many out there whom are new and trying to learn what Alternate Lifestyles mean. Those of Us whom have learned Our Positions and learned Our Values, Proticals, Practices and Rules and Regulations of the Alternate Lifestyle We choose to live have no issues in living it, and those around Us not only in Our world but the Vanilla world have no trouble establishing what Role WE take. It is only those whom take issue when the Alternation of the Lifestyle is regressed into the Vanilla world and its styles that issues pop up, and tempted to be blended into what is Ours to a watered down version that is not even recognizable as a Alternate Lifestyle by many of Us Old Tymers.. I have read All in this post and the words of sum tell plainly what side of the fence they sit on but it is just the issue of them not realizing it yet and not knowing what side their seat on the fence is sitting and are so busy looking the other way cannot see the forrest for the trees. In Our Lifestyle there are set roles set positions those roles take and the protical in which those roles and positions sit and are addressed and when one acts in a way that is not of the role they are no longer a part of it. This is where so much confusion is taking place. My 24/7 Alternate Lifestyle Home runs well and We all as Human beings live Our lifes and Lifestyle with in it. Remember its not the Lifestyle that is hard, it is living Life that takes the effort no matter a persons personality traits. OOOHHH My I have really rambled on here on this subject! Did I mention I was a Dominant or could You All tell? LOL
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