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MizSuz -> RE: i need help (1/19/2005 6:58:23 AM)


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ORIGINAL: liljoy

i like Your idea about the toilet scruber things. i know which ones You are talking about. Can those be used more than once if used on the tub?


Yup, just don't throw them away when you're done. When you buy the 'kit' it comes with a little plastic hanger you can hang on the side of the toilet (or wherever). I'd consider putting it somewhere that the drip as it dries wouldn't be a problem, though. Besides, if you're using them predominantly for the scrubber and handle then you don't really NEED the cleaner that's in them, so they can be used until they wear out. If you are going to use another cleaner (and I would, as I said the Dow cleaner is really good) then I would probably wash all the cleaner that comes in them out before starting. Mixing bleach with other cleaners is not a good idea (kinda like bleach and ammonia - toxic fumes).

You could also just squeeze the sponge out and then set them back into the container they came in or put it under the sink...ready to reattach to the handle when you need it. I'm sure once you see how they work you'll figure out what works best for you.




liljoy -> RE: i need help (1/19/2005 7:05:12 AM)

MizSuz,
OMG thank You!! if that is how He meant it i took it wrong. i did take it as an accusation and was surprised that He would respond that way as it doesn't seem His style.

note to topcat:
i am so very sorry for having mis inturpeted Your intentions. i am deeply shamed by the fact that i reacted without asking for clarification.
lil_joy
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ORIGINAL: MizSuz

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topcat,
wow needing and asking for help in changing an attitude means to you that i'm not submitting?



In defense of topcat (not that he needs my defense) he didn't say anything anybody else didn't say. He just said it more succinctly. I note, however, that you took it differently than you took more wordy explanations.

His suggestion is sound. If you realize that you are submitting to your dominant (resulting in being late) it takes it out of the realm of a personal pet peeve and into the realm of submission to your dominant. This alone could negate your displeasure with it.

I didn't see him suggest that you weren't submitting, I saw him suggest that if you saw it as submission it might be easier for you.





topcat -> RE: i need help (1/19/2005 4:59:19 PM)

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i am so very sorry for having mis inturpeted Your intentions. i am deeply shamed by the fact that i reacted without asking for clarification.


Midear 'Joy-

Apology accepted- and please do accept my apology for being so terse in my answer.
To some extent, I was being snotty, and I was being flip about a serious inquiry.

But on the other hand it is a valid answer, Perhaps you should just consider this another facet of yourself to surrender to him....

Which is what I should have said to begin with. I am sorry.

Stay warm,
Lawrence




liljoy -> RE: i need help (1/19/2005 8:30:53 PM)

Topcat,
Apology accepted as well. i am so glad this is cleared up. Now that i understand Your point i agree. Which was why i was asking for help with it. Your advice and others i have taken to heart and i'll work on it.
i'm glad that i was wrong in how i took it. Not because i enjoy being wrong because i dislike it greatly. i just couldn't figure out why You would be saying what i thought You were saying lol. Does that make any sense

i've grown to respect You here from Your posts and my respect continues to grow.

lil_joy




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