harmony3709
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I had a hysterectomy about two years ago, age 42. Abdominal though, not a vaginal hysterectomy. In my case, my sexual appetite increased, and I, for one, have never for one moment missed having a period, lol. Unfortunately I do still buy tampons and pads because my daughter got her first period when I was in the hospital having the hysterectomy making sure I would never have another! However, while I do NOT call it interference in any way -- I have noticed an occasional difference with sex, and was told this was a shortening of the vaginal wall, which was not mentioned to me ahead of surgery. I haven't even been able to figure out exactly what causes it, but occasionally I have to either shift position or ask my partner to, or else shift position of the vibrator, etc. The first time it happened, yes, it really freaked me out because I had not been forewarned about this and was really upset because I didn't know if it would happen all the time, get worse, was temporary or permanent, etc. Luckily with time I found I would almost call it rare. But nonetheless, it was a bit of a change. Most importantly though -- would it make me change my mind about having the hysterectomy? NO, Not at all. And I since have heard of others who experience something similar which is mild to nothing. Probably depends on how we're built. Some people experience more dryness, which lubes can fix if needed. I also had increased sensitivity around my incision area for probably almost a year, again no big deal,just something I definitely noticed. However, this would only be a problem with the abdominal hysterectomy anyway. Hot flashes suck, but eventually subside (at least they did for me) and I still occasionally have them, but just consider it a mild annoyance. I guess for me, who had ovaries removed also, it was being way more emotional for close to a year, and then thank God, one day it just seemed to "lift". I would burst into tears over the slightest thing!! Luckily realizing why it was happening made it more tolerable. And again, at this time, I would say that is no longer a problem for me at all. I also personally chose not to take hormones after several months of being on them. Just my personal choice. Take care and good luck with whatever decision you make, harmony
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