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Discovery - 4/23/2004 8:10:57 PM

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I, a man, am what is often desribed as a "sexual submissive," one whom relinquishes sexual control to my lover- a woman. I do not believe in the supremacy of one sex over the other but that each sex possess attributes which dominate, when needed, for survival of the species. However, with that said, I am also a 70%/30% relationship submissive. My Mistress is of like mind, but has a fantasy which has come to light. She wants to see me have sex with an African American man, specifically, to perform oral and allow penetration of this male. She states it would fulfill her fantasy and that by preforming this act she and I will more closely bond because I pleased her by doing something I didn't really want to do. However, although I do trust her as a Mistress and lover, I think this is a manipulation designed to establish a new form of control. What do you think?

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RE: Discovery - 4/23/2004 8:46:10 PM

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I cannot speak on behalf of your mistress, but she might be really wanting to just fulfill a fantasy. I cannot tell you should or should'nt, but you know her intentions better than I do. If she has been in control throughout the relationship then I dont think ther is a such thing as a new form of control. Either your in control or not. Go with your instincts and your gut to decide what is best for you and your mistress.

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RE: Discovery - 4/23/2004 8:55:02 PM

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Food for thought, thank You for Your reply and Your advise...respectifully, strapme

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RE: Discovery - 4/23/2004 9:01:08 PM

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Your quite welcome

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RE: Discovery - 4/24/2004 12:21:14 AM

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One thing about a sub/Domme relationship is that
you are the one with the power to say yes or no
and that is it. So its relativly a simple question Id
say and you should simply ask your self if you can
do this act? yes then do it and please your Mistrss
no? then state so stand firm in it and move onto
other things. Im sure your Mistress will find a new
fantasy to think about or She will go else where to
fullfilll this one if the feelings are strong in Her desire
to make it happen, but either way as a sub the ball
is in your corner so take it up and play ball!!

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RE: Discovery - 4/24/2004 5:16:30 AM

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Point taken, thank You Mistress...strapme

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RE: Discovery - 4/24/2004 5:27:56 AM

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