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zenofeller -> Have you found what you wanted ? (9/29/2006 10:19:07 PM)

Sure, you may or may not have found what you want now that you found it, or at least been lookin for a while.

But, have you found what you wanted when you set out to find it ?




OhReallyNow -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/29/2006 10:26:34 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zenofeller

Sure, you may or may not have found what you want now that you found it, or at least been lookin for a while.

But, have you found what you wanted when you set out to find it ?

Master found this slave when she was in a mood of 'I don't care how many I insult as long as they leave me alone " This slave was not actively searching for anyone when her owner first approached her. For some reason, her insults rolled right off him and he persisted.




Aine -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/29/2006 10:31:40 PM)

Have you found the -very- similar thread to this one with an almost exact word for word title?




smilezz -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 4:11:00 AM)

...more than i allowed myself to even imagine.

~smilezz~




zenofeller -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 6:37:43 AM)

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ORIGINAL: Aine

Have you found the -very- similar thread to this one with an almost exact word for word title?


have you found "Irony" by Aristotle ? Tis on the same shelf as "Sarcasm" by Plaut.




becca333 -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 7:21:54 AM)

It's easy to find what you want.  The hard part is that you first have to decide exactly what it is that you want.  Once you're clear about that, the search is simple.




Aine -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 12:26:27 PM)

Take it as you will, but I was just making a light-hearted silly remark.  Not meant to be meanly sarcastic, considering I had seen the other thread two spots under this one when I responded.  




purelea2003 -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 12:46:35 PM)

I didn't find what I wanted. I found what I needed. Then I lost it again.[:(]




Littlepita -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 1:49:29 PM)

I wasn't looking when I found him. But, I sure held on tight when I did and don't plan to ever let go.




amayos -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 2:22:37 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zenofeller

Sure, you may or may not have found what you want now that you found it, or at least been lookin for a while.

But, have you found what you wanted when you set out to find it ?


Eventually, yes. Time and patience are beneficial allies to have on your side.




DivaDuchess -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 3:01:44 PM)

If I put my whole self into the search ... I always find what I am looking for.




champagnewishes -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 4:33:26 PM)

I found it plus more.  I also know that a year ago, had i tried to hold on to it, it wouldn't have worked.  It was however the perfect motivation to bring about the changes i needed to make within myself.  I feel fortunate that the opportunity is still available...and im ready to give it my all.  It is as if my whole life has been a series of events that led me to this very opportunity only i never knew it till now.  I shot for the stars and got the universe.  




LordODiscipline -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 4:45:05 PM)

Yes, but the surface was cracked and dry... so, I found another.
 
~J




krikket -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 5:26:39 PM)

Yes, no, maybe, sometimes...

All depends on the day and what my thoughts are..

plus, there's always that little voice inside that whispers ... "careful what you wish for...you might find it"..lol




Misstoyou -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (9/30/2006 5:31:48 PM)

Yes, I have found what I wanted when I sent out to find it...as well as finding what I didn't know I wanted when I was looking... which has turned out to be something even more special. [:)]




marieToo -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (10/1/2006 10:05:49 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zenofeller

Sure, you may or may not have found what you want now that you found it, or at least been lookin for a while.

But, have you found what you wanted when you set out to find it ?


No. Never.  I've always 'found' things of substance, be they relationships, important decisions, answers etc, when I wasn't looking for them. But then, Im a freaky kinda girl.




Aine -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (10/1/2006 11:33:07 AM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: marieToo

quote:

ORIGINAL: zenofeller

Sure, you may or may not have found what you want now that you found it, or at least been lookin for a while.

But, have you found what you wanted when you set out to find it ?


No. Never.  I've always 'found' things of substance, be they relationships, important decisions, answers etc, when I wasn't looking for them. But then, Im a freaky kinda girl.


I have to agree on this one...the harder I looked, the less I found.   Same went for all my friends.  I stopped looking and I almost quite literally fell into the lap of my last boyfriend whom I was with for about 6 years.  And after he and I broke up, once again, I wasn't looking for anything and I met my current boyfriend and things have never been better.  So I continue to tell my friends to just relax, not to obsess over finding someone.  It's likely it'll be right in front of them and they're looking so hard they miss it.  It's kinda like life is hiding it in plain sight.




slavemaia -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (10/1/2006 5:29:27 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: zenofeller

Sure, you may or may not have found what you want now that you found it, or at least been lookin for a while.

But, have you found what you wanted when you set out to find it ?


YES, YES and YES. And my statement now is be careful what you ask for - you may get it. LOL Getting what i wanted has proven to challenge me daily as i learn to be worthy of what i have.




Adelphus -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (10/1/2006 9:30:38 PM)

quote:

ORIGINAL: slavemaia
YES, YES and YES. And my statement now is be careful what you ask for - you may get it. LOL Getting what i wanted has proven to challenge me daily as i learn to be worthy of what i have.


Oi! I hear that! I was searching for three years on and off, sometimes really desperate. I always figured I might find a Dom that maybe had a little extra time for me or was just bored. To be honest I never saw myself as...attractive.
But then She walked into the dungeon and it was like she was the only one in the room. I had no idea how to approach her, lucky for me her primary sub introduced us! I owe him SO MUCH!
Even my wife likes her! (thank god;-))
The most amazing thing is...she wants me. She really wants me! I had no idea, I thought she just felt bad for me that night, but that one encounter spurred lunches and outings, trips to the beach, flea markets the like...the eventual loss of my virginity....
Never in my life could I have imagined her, or that she would return my feelings, that she would find my worthy of her time and considerations. It is still something I am having trouble wrapping my mind around to be honest.
Of course it does help that she's determined to spank the mindset of inferiority out of me.;-)




marieToo -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (10/1/2006 9:47:59 PM)

Adelphus:

Best of luck to you both.  I dont know her personally, but had dinner with her friend Peter about a year ago.  Very classy gentleman he is.  <He delivers a fine hand-spanking too>.  [;)]




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