Aine -> RE: Have you found what you wanted ? (10/1/2006 11:33:07 AM)
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ORIGINAL: zenofeller Sure, you may or may not have found what you want now that you found it, or at least been lookin for a while. But, have you found what you wanted when you set out to find it ? No. Never. I've always 'found' things of substance, be they relationships, important decisions, answers etc, when I wasn't looking for them. But then, Im a freaky kinda girl. I have to agree on this one...the harder I looked, the less I found. Same went for all my friends. I stopped looking and I almost quite literally fell into the lap of my last boyfriend whom I was with for about 6 years. And after he and I broke up, once again, I wasn't looking for anything and I met my current boyfriend and things have never been better. So I continue to tell my friends to just relax, not to obsess over finding someone. It's likely it'll be right in front of them and they're looking so hard they miss it. It's kinda like life is hiding it in plain sight.
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