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wild1cfl -> RE: Question for the Men {Doms,Masters,etc.) (10/1/2006 4:45:09 PM)

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ORIGINAL: CrappyDom


Besides, most of the questions and or drama posted here fits a pretty tight consistent pattern so there isn't much required to call it.


LOL it sure does, and no it does not require much to call it




afeathr -> RE: Question for the Men {Doms,Masters,etc.) (10/1/2006 5:12:41 PM)

Stoney is upset about another post http://www.collarchat.com/m_608169/tm.htm that went on with his sub.  I can see that he is still *very* angry, but I don't think that jabbing everyone else, over his particular situation, is appropriate.  Just *my* 2 cents <bows deeply>




DiurnalVampire -> RE: Question for the Men {Doms,Masters,etc.) (10/1/2006 5:20:41 PM)

I never put much stock into someone online until we meet the first time.  Until then (and even afterwards sometiems) they are asumed to be all talk.
Sometimes, changing a profile is becsaue they realized they arent ready for the R/l stuff they were pursuing. When some are faced with the reality of a situation, it makes them rethink it. Others have something to hide. And of course there are fakes who never intended aything to hapen in the first place.  Without your mystery man's input, we cant realistically say which.  However, it doesnt matter what his reasons are, all in all.
He isnt looking for what you are, cut and dry. And if thats true, then you are wasting your time pursuing him.  Cut your losses, and just look for a better fit.

DV 




Musefay -> RE: Question for the Men {Doms,Masters,etc.) (10/1/2006 6:07:26 PM)

DV,
Thanks for your input & insite.
Yes,I have pretty much decided to cut my losses after some thought,and messages here that just confirmed what I was thinking of the situation.
Things must be taken w/ a grain of salt as to what someone tells you.
My meeting him in person was to get a feel for him ,and like you mentioned EVEN then that isn't always an indication of who & what  a person may be.
It's always nice to be able to bounce somethings off of others and see it from other angles.
Thanks,
Sincerely,
Musefay




Kinkypupper -> RE: Question for the Men {Doms,Masters,etc.) (10/2/2006 5:04:03 PM)

Probably a game player or someone who is married and trying to live a fantasy.
Or they just have no idea what they want and meeting you scared them a bit.




michaelGA2 -> RE: Question for the Men {Doms,Masters,etc.) (10/2/2006 5:12:13 PM)

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ORIGINAL: Musefay

So,I write w/ a man for a good ten days and it goes along quite nice.Just good conversations of getting to know one another & the like. We talked breifly by phone yesterday. Nothing implied here other then our common ideals mind you I am no newbie or player.
Today he says he'll call & doesn't.Oh,I know things do come up.
Funny thing I come on here and his ad now says he wants an "online romance"
This after I say  in my last email to
him of meeting in person. In public just for coffee.
I think he either is married or all his talk was that talk
What do you think?
Ask him of the change to his profile?
Thanks,
Musefay


this all falls under the category of "Typical Male Behavior" of which i do not subscribt to or condone. if i say i'll meet You...i will. there's no point in leading someone on other than personal enjoyment




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