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NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/18/2005 4:50:45 PM   
Foxer55


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Status: offline 		OK, I notice many submissive profiles here have the category of "Nipple Stretching" listed. Would some of you subs give me an idea of what you seek in nipple stretching? I mean what is the goal and why do you like the practice? Is it the pain of stretching you seek or is there some other component involved? And what is the ultimate goal, behavior modification or nipple modification or just control of some sort? I'd like to know the basis of your ineterest so I maybe can roll it into my repitoire.

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/18/2005 5:05:54 PM   
sweettreat


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Status: offline 		Explain nipple stretching please, is this something only pierced nipples are able to accomplish?

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/18/2005 5:27:06 PM   
Foxer55


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Don't ask me, that's what I'm trying to figure out. Read a few sub profiles and see, it says only, they seek...among other things..."Nipple Stretching."

Foxer

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/18/2005 7:22:10 PM   
MizSuz


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Status: offline 		I'm not a sub and although my nips haven't been pierced in a couple of years they were pierced for some time. I also do body piercing, both temporary and permanent, a good bit.

Stretching nipples is for a couple of reasons.

1. the person likes the way they look (this could be the sub, the dom, or both).
2. It increases sensitivity and can also be painful. Some enjoy that level of stimulation.
3. If the nipples are very large (meaning they poke out a good ways) they can accommodate more jewelry and toys.
4. Body modification is a bit of a fetish unto itself.

It's like any other body mod, you want to start out slow and increase the stretch as the person become accustomed. Don't be fooled by jewelry places that show 1.5" stretchers and say "Just put them on."

When mine were pierced I used to use nipple shields for the purpose of light stretching, just to increase the sensitivity. The more acute the cone shape of the shield the further they will 'stretch' the nipple. I did NOT do this for any sort of permanent modification, but many people do.

Most often I've seen barbells in the nipple piercings (instead of rings) and then the barbells are used inside the stretcher. Be aware, if you're serious about stretching then you don't want a small/thin gauge piercing. Think cheese slicer. While I've seen a number of stretchers that are 'static" meaning they are THIS long and that's IT; I've also seen conical shaped stretchers that were essentially coiled wire. You simply twist the cone to get a bit more stretch.

It's like any other body mod, though. You should do it slowly and with care if you intend to get them to really stretch.

Here's a few links of pics I dug up.

http://www.bondagecollars.com You'll need to click on "nipple stretchers" on the left. this is an example of a static stretcher that's already pretty high.

This is an example on BMEZINE.com. I don't have an account anymore so I can't do a deeper search, but I know that BME has LOTS of pics of stretched nips if anyone cares to join. http://www.molokosynthemesc.com/search/srch2004.exe?pic=pierce/08-nipple/A40915/high/iam00063950.jpg&tsect=pierce/08-nipple/large001.html&desc=Chains+are+nice...%3Cbr%3E%3Cfont+size%3D-1%3Etunnels+AND+stretchers%3Cbr%3E%28by+my+Master%2C+Tunnels+By+Tunnelvisionmn.Com%29%3Cbr%3ESubmitted+by+iam%3A%3Ca+href%3D%22http%3A%2F%2Fiam.bmezine.com%2F%3Fpetslave45%22%3Epetslave45%3C%2Fa%3E

And this is a pic of the spiral stretcher. The user chose to use rings, but I reiterate that barbells are better suited to this sort of work.






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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/18/2005 7:54:06 PM   
stef


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Status: offline 		You're making me want to have mine re-pierced again...

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/18/2005 7:59:56 PM   
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You're making me want to have mine re-pierced again...



Tell me about it. I miss the jewelry.

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/18/2005 8:03:55 PM   
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Status: offline 		wow , u were very informative
nipple stretching has always excited me
im constantly tweakin my nipples all day long , for years now
ty

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 1:09:18 AM   
Foxer55


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Status: offline 		MizSuz,

Thanks. That was very informative.

Foxer

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 4:23:04 AM   
nella


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Status: offline 		One side question, can one have nippel pircing whitout having pals of streching them?

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 5:40:13 AM   
MizSuz


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One side question, can one have nippel pircing whitout having pals of streching them?


Definitely yes. If you just like to wear the jewelry then go for it. Getting them is painful, though (of course mine were done with a 12 gauge to begin with) They hadn't healed after a year so I took the rings out and went DOWN in size to a 14gauge barbell and they healed in two weeks! I used to stretch them back up to a 12 when I wanted them to feel like they'd been pierced again, then I'd let them go back down to a 14 for general use. (Please understand that in this case when I say 'stretched' I mean the size of the hole and not the length of the nipple.)

If you think there is a possibility of doing hard D/s play with them then be careful of not going too thin in the gauge. The piercings will act like a cheese slicer in your nipple if you do. I've seen a lot of people with very thin jewelry in their nipples, if you don't plan on having them pulled very much you can probably get away with it, but if you think they will be pulled, tweaked, squeezed or weighted then I recommend discussing this with your piercer before you get them done. If the piercer knows they will go with a larger gauge to begin with. I would say nothing thinner than a 16 gauge should be used, though (if you're going to play) and even 16 is dubious.



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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 5:41:16 AM   
MizSuz


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ORIGINAL: fallenangell1

wow , u were very informative
nipple stretching has always excited me
im constantly tweakin my nipples all day long , for years now
ty


Nipple stretching can be fun, but if you want them to stay bigger then you'll have to approach it like a body modification. That's not ALWAYS fun, but it can be fun often. SORE will be the word of the day!

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 5:41:53 AM   
MizSuz


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ORIGINAL: Foxer55

Thanks. That was very informative.



You're very welcome! I'm glad I could help.





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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 6:05:47 AM   
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im constantly tweakin my nipples all day long


"You must be a riot around the watercooler, Alice!"

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 7:18:15 AM   
nella


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Status: offline 		I have a cat and a dog that can be a bit extatic aboute getting my nose and climb all over me so to avoid acidents i guess i sh\ould get thiker jewlery.

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 8:06:15 AM   
MizSuz


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ORIGINAL: nella

I have a cat and a dog that can be a bit extatic aboute getting my nose and climb all over me so to avoid acidents i guess i sh\ould get thiker jewlery.



Much depends on the size of your nipples and placement of the piercing, but 14g usually does the trick.




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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 8:21:11 AM   
willing2serve


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My breast lactate, "Master's Milk", will nipple stretching or piercing in any way effect the milk coming out, or cause damage to the nipple?

Respectfully,
Willing2serve1

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 9:10:08 AM   
stef


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Status: offline 		If you want to get technical, the piercing does "damage" the nipple but not to the point where it intereferes with breastfeeding so you should be ok.

Here's a couple of links on the sibject for further reading:

Nipple Piercing: Is It Compatible with Breastfeeding?

Breastfeeding and Pierced Nipples

Breast Tattoos, Nipple Piercings and Breastfeeding

~stef

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 9:39:26 AM   
ARoseAndAnEye


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Master had my nipples pierced 2 years ago. We loved it! Then I had hurt my back and neck and had to go through a series of MRI's andx-rays 'n such over a period of a couple of weeks. I foolishly removed the barbells ahead of time, and when all of the medical procedures were done, found I couldn't get the barbells back in. After this we left on vacation for 2 weeks. By the time we returned our schedules made it physically impossible to get back to the piercing parlor in time to save them.... so i regretfully let them go.

I begged Master to repierce me, so for my last birthday (July) he took me back to the piercing parlor and had them redone, this time with rings. First of all, the second time around hurt EVEN MORE than the first time (although I didn't think that was possible!). The piercer said it was probably due to scar tissue. From the moment she pierced me, my nipples hurt SOOOO BAD. The left one never healed correctly and Master finally had to remove the ring. The right one, while doing "ok", is hyper sensitive and still needs routine cleaning/care with the sea salts, etc.

WTF?

Anybody have a clue? It makes me sad that I had to give one up, and it makes me just as sad to have one left that in all honesty, can't be played with because of the hypersensitivity. I LOVE the way it looks, but I don't know what I can or should do.

~anna

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 10:02:34 AM   
stef


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Status: offline 		I've had mine done twice over the years. The jewelry I used the first time was captive bead rings and barbells the second. They piercings healed much more quickly and with significantly fewer problems with the barbells. Have you considered switching jewelry and seeing if that makes any difference?

~stef

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RE: NIPPLE STRETCHING - 1/19/2005 10:14:06 AM   
ARoseAndAnEye


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In reading other posts about nipple piercings, the general concensus seems to be that barbells pose the least amount of discomfort during healing. That's probably why I didn't have trouble the first time around and why I'm so shell shocked THIS time.

I will pose the suggestion to switch back to barbells to Master tonite. However, I don't think I have enough guts to go back and have the left one done A THIRD TIME. (ow!)

Thanks for responding.

~anna

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