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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 10/4/2006 3:55:23 PM

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No need to leave...it was a good topic. Sometimes people make jokes and have some fun but it was a thought provoking topic. Stay and play :)

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 10/4/2006 6:12:21 PM

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Some of you women are sweet as can be. Sometimes I wish I was a subbie boi. They seem to have a better pick. :)

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 10/6/2006 12:18:12 PM

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My penis, Her toy. That's where the pleasure comes from.

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/23/2010 3:01:46 AM

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Please don't ruin my fantasy of there being some mean, bitchy, hateful dommes that are happy to completely destroy a human male! (ones that don't care)!

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/23/2010 3:03:31 AM

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ORIGINAL: subinchico

Please don't ruin my fantasy of there being some mean, bitchy, hateful dommes that are happy to completely destroy a human male! (ones that don't care)!

Oh, they're out there... I used to work for her. God it pisses me off... I loved that job so much, but hated her.

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/23/2010 7:36:51 AM

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Assuming one is not a masochist, there are still good reasons:

Vulnerability.
Control/helplessness.
Intimacy.

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/23/2010 9:25:35 PM

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Thanks BKSir,

Any chance you could direct her in my direction?

Cheeres to you!

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ORIGINAL: subinchico

Please don't ruin my fantasy of there being some mean, bitchy, hateful dommes that are happy to completely destroy a human male! (ones that don't care)!

Oh, they're out there... I used to work for her. God it pisses me off... I loved that job so much, but hated her.

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/28/2010 10:30:49 AM

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Having done much research,and being highly interested in this subject, it seems to me that one almost has to be a total masochist. I really want to participate in this activity.I crave it,however I am not a total masochist,and it just seems like it is difficult to find the middle of the road balance,so to speak.

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/28/2010 3:26:44 PM

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ORIGINAL: Lashra

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ORIGINAL: ToGiveDivine

For a newbie, it is very unnerving and frightening - do the Dommes really realize the power they have to destroy another human being? Is it something they appreciate in the man's willingness to give himself up to them or is it of no consequence as it's just some tied up pig for them to torture? (I'm thinking there are both types and the trick is to find the ones that appreciate what the man is giving up)

It does give one to pause ...

I do realize that when I have my sub tied down in and he is lost in the throes of subspace, that I have so much power over him. His life is basically in my hands and with that thought in mind that I do what it is I do to him. I Dominate him, I torture him, I adore him, I love him and allow him to serve me, but most of all I protect him.

That is my main function while we go on this journey to keep him safe from harm while I thrill Myself and him. he trusts me enough to give himself over to me and I will not betray that trust, just as I expect him to never betray mine. Do I think he is a pig? No he is a wonderful man that I respect and care for.

Now as to the question about how to build up a tolerance for CBT, buy some clothespins(extreme restraints has some nice ones with coated ends) and a book on CBT. Practice on yourself, go slow and be VERY careful.

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~Lashra

So well said.

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/28/2010 3:28:41 PM

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ORIGINAL: superman14312

Having done much research,and being highly interested in this subject, it seems to me that one almost has to be a total masochist. I really want to participate in this activity.I crave it,however I am not a total masochist,and it just seems like it is difficult to find the middle of the road balance,so to speak.

I don't want to hurt you... I just want to tie you balls up into pretty shapes!

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/28/2010 3:55:58 PM

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my Lady and i have been together for 8 years, W/we completely trust each other to the fullest. CBT is a very big part of O/our play, yes She pushes the limit, but also W/we have safe words that are totally respected.

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RE: Tolerance for CBT - 1/28/2010 6:15:40 PM

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Well, considering the original is over three years old, I'm guessing the OP's pain tolerance in the type of play has gone up.

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